So there's a guy in my college who I really like. I never confessed to him because of my social anxiety and I don't have much experience in dating in general but he def knows I have feelings for him and he never gave anyone a solid answer about his own feelings for me. We started actively talking about 4 months ago and everything was great but it just changed in literally one day. I thought I was just imagining things but it's like one day he walked me to the metro, laughed and talked about life and stuff with me and another day he just straight up ignored me. Few days ago during our class I heard him joke about his girlfriend and he kept discussing her with his friends. The same day when I sped off to the metro after our classes he called up to me and wanted to walk together. This shit led to a really bad depressive episode for me. So what do i do? Was it a joke? Does he actually have a girlfriend? Do I ask him about it? My friend tried asking him about it and he kept avoiding the question. I'm not afraid of rejection that much, I'm more afraid he was just using me all this time. I really need advice on this
>>34898269He knew you liked him and was waiting for you to make a move. You didn't. Eventually he got bored of waiting and found someone else. He now has a girlfriend who isn't you. You've missed your chance with him and will probably never get another one. Find another guy.
>>34898269Send him a tasteful boob pic
>>34898283Even better, send him an image of yourself from behind wearing tight jeans.
>>34898283Do you people get off on giving the worst possible advice?
>>34898269Do you like older guys? People outside of college tend to know what the fuck they are doing more often.
>>34898331I said tasteful. I'd get it and like it if a qt grill sent me boobs
>>34898331>Do you people get off on giving the worst possible advice?They absolutely do.
>>34898269You do what you should've done months ago and ask him out on a date. If he days no he has a gf, then you know exactly where you stand
He treats you like shit. Ignore him and move on. Have some self respect.
>>34898269>this guy either has a gf or lies>he doesn’t know what he wants>he acts flakySounds like a real catch, go ahead and propose
Did you send the image yet? If you need further help I can guide you with posture, lighting etc
>>34898269>Does he actually have a girlfriend? My friend tried asking him about it and he kept avoiding the question. Ask him yourself. Say look, I think you're cute, I enjoy your company, I little crush on you. I heard you say you had a gf, is that true? Then no matter what he says say that if you date he'll have to break up with her first>I'm not afraid of rejection that much,bI'm more afraid he was just using me all this time. I really need advice on thisThe only one wasting your time is you. The longer you wait to have direct conversation with him.a out this the more time you are wasting crushing on someone you haven't even kissed. For all you know he has a small or ugly penis so check on that before you start crushing
>>34898447SHE SHOULD SEND HER TITS TO ME INSTEAD OF THAT DUMB CHAD!!!
>>34898269Maybe you're the girlfriend
>>34898269He probably sees you as your gf but isn't sure so that's why he is probably so quiet about it
>>34898331Unironically for girls I'll give u a cheat guys r scared as FUCK to approach now. And scared to seal any deal, because they don't want to come off as a creep. So a good dude might just not do it even if he really likes you. So you should just say some shit like "hey can you help me with this on Saturday" and hook up, pour some wine or whatever
I think you should forget about him, I know it's hard, I had the same problem too, it's hard to forget about someone you like, but what are you describing here..give it up it up..
holy fuck. worst advice ive ever read in my life on this thread, congrats on being a degen retard
>>34900421Severely underrated postThis would also explain why he was evasive to your friend
>>34898419How old?
>>34898269Can you stalk his social media?
>>34898269Grab his arm in a playful way, then pull it between you boobs. Squish them together around his arm. If he leaves it there, then he’s into you. If he pulls away you can try to comfort him a little and try the embrace again. If he pulls away again, he’s just not into you. It’s better to do this in a secluded area so he doesn’t feel judged by other people.
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