Married for 1 year now. How do you married men cope with seeing girls that are hotter and fitter than your wife in public?
>>34898454Marriage is so dumb. You've tethered yourself to a deprecating asset for zero gain. What were you thinking?
what exactly is there to cope with this has to be some fetish larplook and don't touch like a grown ass adult? go jack off to the thought later? or do touch and deal with the marriage consequences?however did you handle it before you got married? if you did?
>>34898454Marrying based on physical attraction is a recipe for getting divorce raped anon. Highly attractive women are consistently the worst to deal with in relationships and divorces. They’re expensive and entitled.
>>34898454Not true. Ive seen really average looking women that somehow still look good it's probably the make up but they look good.
>>34898454"All women are hot. That's life. He's acting like he can get them all. It's like saying there's so much good food in the world. How can you eat it all? You can't. Plus, it might taste good, but it's not good for you. Don't be gluttonous."-my fiance
>>34898650wtf, actual good advice? On my /adv/?
>>34898454>hotter and fitterYou really didn't think the marriage thing through, bub
>>34898510After 26 years I still really enjoy listening to my wife choke on my dick and come back for more. God that's hot, I can cum so hard it comes out her nose. I guess I could do that to another woman but I enjoy hurting this one.
They all cope by directly piercing a solid rebar through their cock so that it only gets removed by their wife when it's time to have sex.
>>34898454I am able to develop sentiment and fealty towards my wife. My wife is more attractive and comforting to me than a random woman because the random woman never went through good times and bad times with me or shared milestone memories or experiences with me. How can you be married and you still ain't pair bonded yet? Do you have social any deficiencies such as autism or sociopathy?
>>34900149>pair bondedthat's some low test unsuccessful man copein reality there's no pussy like fresh new pussy. if you can get it, you go for it. if you can't, you pretend to still be attracted to your wife.>>34898454you should have thought about that before marriage, einstein. do you have kids yet?
>>34900149So you're telling me when you're at a grocery store or somewhere public and you see a sex bomb walking by or doing her thing, that you don't stop and stare or appreciate, or have a 2 min fantasy about her?
>>34898454Were women that hot ever interested in you before? Because if not, you’re thirsting like a dog and pointlessly drooling exactly the same as before.If your wife is fat, what the fuck are you going with a fat lady? You are never going to trick your brain into being attracted to a fat woman. If you’re fat yourself then you have to eat that shit sandwich and deal with them but otherwise it’s not going to work.The way you deal with this is choosing a woman who takes care of herself in advance of asking her to marry you.
>>34900149>My wife is more attractive and comforting to me than a random woman because the random woman never went through good times and bad times with me or shared milestone memories or experiences with me.Not OP but that's a good reason why one would stay with their wife, glad that you have a partner like that. Stuff like that is probably why Pierce Brosnan has stayed with his wife despite easily being able to get someone much younger if he was single.At age 37 I don't see forming that kind of relationship with a woman ever happening to me so yeah it's just seeing escorts once in a blue moon and never experiencing actual genuine intimacy for me sadly.
>>34900149>went through good times and bad times with me or shared milestone memories or experiences with meThis makes sense if you meet and get married in your 20s, but when youre in your 30s what experiences are left to "share"? Both of you have likely explored other countries, gone to big events, celebrated birthdays, graduations, getting hired for that job you wanted, got that big promotion, bought a house, etc without each other. I look at my brother who met his current wife at 23, when she was 21, they dated for 7 years and got married and have been happy ever since. They both went through a shit ton of things together in their 20s that brought them closer to each other.
>>34898624You need some attraction.I don't want a fugly partner.But getting into a relationship without it being because "I like this person way more than most people" is a road to shit.
>>34898454>>34900489>>34903167If your wife was doing same thing I'd love to see your reaction
>>34898510We have kids and are raising them in a stable environment also I like MILFs and basically made my own.
I'd still breed Natalie Portman and Megan Fox
>>34904547Oh, she does. Not because of some cuck fantasy shit but rather because of how highly obvious it is that a significant portion of couples these days are two fat people secretly brooding about how they’re better than each other. You see both sides of it here constantly.
>>34898454>>34898510you get your wife into being a cuckqueen. cuckqueens are made they aren't born that way. If you do it correctly she will get off to you sleeping with other girls and she will bring them to you
>>34899064that's pretty hot
>>34898608>go jack off to the thought later?this shit ain't sustainable. Your wife will get a feeling of you finding it "elsewhere". My girl is insatiable and is fine doing it all over again for 7 years. I want new pussy even though I'd never cheat. But damn it, is my dick craving novelty.
>>34898454>copenah, not what i'm doing. i'm not twelve anymore.
>>34900489You sound like a junkie with an unimpressive life.
I am blind to white women, but whenever I see a chinese woman, I get a similar crushing feeling because they are so beautiful to me. Not married, but in a relationship. Its difficult to bear, and I cope with gooning. I think trying not to look at hot women in public is pathetic so that cope is out of the question
