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How can I meet females if Im a 29 year old wageslave with no friends? Im running out of time.
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Surely the females are on the 4chan /adv/ board on a Sunday evening
If you have time off after work then go do shit you like where other people are. hang with a coworker you fuck with. You aren't out of time until your heart stops beating, don't kid yourself
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>>34898695
Then OP doesn't like meeting females. Nobody's gonna bust your door down and fuck you unfortunately.
Develop some new hobbies, say yes more often even to shit you find completely detestable and gay. I did fucking improv classes with they/thems dude.
Shit pays dividends and you'll have more sex than you know what to do with
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>>34898630
A couple of things from a 38yo man who is currently rebuilding with Doordash after a TERRIBLE experience teaching music in the public sector:

You aren't running out of time. Your just on the losing end at the moment. You can get out it, BUT it will take effort on your end.

>>34898662
This reply has a point. Is there something you like to do? Is that something you can enjoy in public? While you may not be used to it, give it a shot if both are yes. Sure, you'll suck at it at first. Everyone sucks at the first time they try something new. Give yourself grace if you suck at it a few times. Every "failure" is great practice if you reflect on what went wrong and try something different the next time. Is it easy? No. Nothing worth having is easy. Not a goddamn thing. But just because it is hard, doesn't mean you can't get better at doing the thing.
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>>34898756
Ok so if you don't like meeting females, doing shit, or being with other people, and get smart-assy when given advice to do so, then how the fuck do you expect to meet females?
Sit in your room and jack off then.
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>>34898994
there is:
steroids + (anti hair loss meds) + home gym
if you're jacked enough, dating apps become delivery service for sex
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>>34899053
>implying all OP wants is sum fuk
If that's what OP wants, I guess. This reads more as dating to me.
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>>34899081
more sex = more chance a girl likes you for more than sex
it's the best strategy in modern dating
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>>34899104
What in the headass Manosphere type shit is that?

>I paid for so many escorts but none of them love me what am I doing wrong
>I put out for every woman that gives me attention but none of them love me for more than a night with my dick
> I seek casual sex, why aren't any of them being serious

If that's modern dating then I will happily stick with the old ways and be ahead of the curve when they come back. History cycles cos no one learns shit from history.
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>>34898702
>Nobody's gonna bust your door down and fuck you unfortunately.
That actually happened to me a good bit, fortunately they were all women
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Get nice Chinese girl
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>>34899173
>I seek casual sex, why aren't any of them being serious
this never happens
it's just your preconceived notion
casual sex you have is not the goal it's the result of having a successful dating strategy
meaning you're attracting girls into your life
you're attractive enough that girls want to have sex with you
and you understand that not all girls are compatible long term though they may be enjoyable and fun people
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>>34899208
I can see that point of view. Maybe my perception is a little skewed cos I can pull "out of my league" people with who I am as a person.
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>>34898630
>How can I meet females
this is a tale as old as time. I have to be honest with you brother- if you have to ask this, you are LOSING. You just admitted you don't know how to procreate in this society and have to resort to asking us. In the meantime, even Tyrone and now, Ahmed know how to get chicks. Think about this for a moment. Tyrone runs on that decades-old societal stigma based on his appearance, and yet he still finds girls weekly. Ahmed, who barely speaks English, manages to snake through English-speaking society and use their phone apps and social media to his advantage. You? Gave up.
>Im a 29 year old wageslave with no friends
You admit here that you don't have any time. You have to set aside time to put yourself out there. You have to create a network of friends. All the girlfriends I've ever had I met from someone introducing them to me. So try going to a more densely-populated city or area near you and actually attempt to meet people and make friends. If you don't know how, learn how.
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>>34899229
yea, if you have no problem attracting girls who are into you then you're at the sweetspot

which is what I think most people struggle with.
they want to meet girls and get a relationship
but the fundamental baseline is
are you attractive to girls?
do they like you and see you sexually?

if a person like OP can't clear that line then a relationship is almost impossible
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Hitting expiration phase moid
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>>34899234
NTA, but what if I genuinely despise going out and talking to other people?
Even if I do manage to talk to others, the women are nice but the men are try-hard dogs who won't stop trying to "mog" me, and shit like that reinforces my disdain for the outside world and socialization since it makes me feel like another chimp in a cage where all the behaviors are subconscious attempts at 'domination'.
It is boring and frankly embarrassing, sometimes I ask these idiots what they are even talking about and they always act confused or uncomfortable.

>vidrel
What should I do if I am simply disinterested in doing things like in that webm? I get irritated when people try talking to me, look at me, or try to exchange contact info with me.

Am I actually broken?
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>>34899928
Also, do not get me started on the fake-smiles and self deprecation humor. The jumbled jargon too.
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>>34899928
>reinforces my disdain for the outside world and socialization since it makes me feel like another chimp in a cage where all the behaviors are subconscious attempts at 'domination'.
have you ever stopped to think that maybe you are placing yourself on a high-horse and that's probably why people think you're annoying and a creep? You sound like a real Elliot Rodgers for real. Get over yourself.
>the men are try-hard dogs who won't stop trying to "mog" me
yeah welcome to human history. Dare I say, even nature as intended? Males will always try to compete with each other. The fact that you make yourself out to be a loser right away should wake you up. You're crying you have to compete for females? Are you slow?
>What should I do if I am simply disinterested in doing things like in that
stay at home and stay a loser? Idk? Everyone has to put on their best mask to play the court game. Nothing has changed. Socialize or stay lonely. Seems like you just want to be an insufferable psuedo-intellectual faggot instead of doing the sensible thing and actually socialize with skills you can learn so you can get laid like in that video. kek
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>>34899952
My "friends" stopped inviting me out since girls were talking to me instead of them even though I dont do any of that PUA bullshit and just keep to myself.

And it seems like you got the wrong idea about me, I am sorry for not being more clear:
>I feel nothing
>I have no ambition
>I have rejected dates
>I have turned down sex
Many attempts have been madeto find my 'tribe', but the emptiness and irritation never goes away.
I would have suggested that you stop wagging your figurative tale and barking at me for wrongly misinterpreting my words, but I understand that I am the abnormal one here, not you the 'normie'

Does anyone else understand what I mean and have advice to fix my condition?
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>>34898702
>>34898988
>>34898994
>>34899104
>>34899952
Oh, you are trying to derail the thread. It would not surprise me if it was (you) yourself that made this bare-bones, low effort thread to fish for people to bait with your self-masturbation and Andrew Tate styled manslut advice for insecure normies with a lower PSL.

Here is some advice buddy: it is all meaningless.
You better knock this off befor I post my jawline and show you how meaningful your words are, though in the case that you are a femcel trying to annoy midwits and normies, I will not give you the pleasure to see photos of my beautiful body.

I almost forgot that I replied in this thread, do not be upset if your reply goes unnoticed.
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>>34898702
Women don't have hobbies, no exceptions. Therefore taking up new hobbies to meet women is a non sequitur.
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>>34900124
Don't bother responding, this entire thread is bait made for the entertainment for some pimply zoomzoom or saggy hag.
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>>34898702
>Develop some new hobbies
What if he’s genuinely not interested in anything else?
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>>34899952
>stay at home and stay a loser? Idk? Everyone has to put on their best mask to play the court game.
>“just force yourself to do things you don’t want to do outside of a work context, bro”
why?
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>>34899952
>Males will always try to compete with each other.
>You're crying you have to compete for females? Are you slow?
We need church/society-enforced sexual communism that favors men, just like how things used to be (and is the way they should be).
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>>34900107
>Does anyone else understand what I mean and have advice to fix my condition?
your condition is that you think you are some special, one-of-a-kind person when in actuality, you are just some retard. If you really were an intellectual, you would stop whining and actually learn skills like socializing in order to further your relationship goals. But you keep blathering on about how you "cant find your people" like the fuck? If you have no ambition to succeed, STAY A LOSER THEN.
>>34900123
those aren't me dumbass.
>>34900502
>just force yourself to do things
>why?
if you don't do anything, nothing will change. Expecting the world to give you rewards or your goals on a silver platter without you placing any effort is retarded. You put in the work to build a social network of people to meet an ideal partner, or you dont. Simple as. Languish at home in your bedrot for all I care kek. No one is going to force you to make friends.
>>34900585
>We need church/society-enforced sexual communism that favors men, just like how things used to be (and is the way they should be).
There already is. It's called "looksmaxxing". If you aren't tall, should at least be fit and well-groomed. Have some fashion sense. Learn some talking skills. You are only doing yourself a disservice being a bitter fool. No girl wants to be with some doompiller loser.
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>>34900836
>the world to give you rewards or your goals on a silver platter without you placing any effort
this is exactly what happens with normies tho. they don’t ever have to actually try, they just have the knowledge of how to do this shit hardcoded into them at birth
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>>34900867
No they don't. They just got more practice at an earlier age. You're an adult with a child's toolset for seduction. It's going to take work to change.
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>>34900107
Why did u reject dates n sex?

Ive only met women online recently. make a profile n play the swiping game or spam the numbers game irl
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>>34900988
>They just got more practice at an earlier age.
yeah, because they were born with the capability to do that
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>>34898630
serious answer, instagram. dont bother going outside. broke women stay at home all day watching tiktok
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>>34898630
Haiii wanna meet me? We ban be friends ^^ reply for ctt
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Wish there was an instruction manual on how to get women t.bh. In a perfect world that would exist



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