So I thought I was finally gonna get laid right. I've been chasing this bitch for weeks and she actually seems to like me. She was over at my place again last night and we started taking off our clothes in my bedroom. We were kissing under the sheets for a while and I started licking her pussy when she decided to let me stick it in. Well I quickly discovered this was harder than it seems, no pun in tended. We tried all the different positions I could think of, missionary, mating press, doggy, prone bone, upright, on the table, legs together, legs spread apart. I changed the angle so many times but I couldn't force myself into the hole. She was really patient with me so we went at it for over an hour before we gave up and she said maybe we'll have better luck next time.She said she was relaxed and she didn't seem uncomfortable or abnormally tense or anything like that. She tells me she had no trouble with much bigger guys before, so tightness shouldn't be the issue. And it was my first time so I got a little nervous because of my inexperience, when I kept hitting a wall I got kinda flustered.Now I'm worried she'll think I'm less of a man because I couldn't manage to go in. How do I get over my shame and embarassment and fear of disappointing her a second time to try again?How on earth does sex actually work? In porn it always looks so smooth and I never thought I'd get stuck at this stage. What positions are the easiest for our first time?
>>34900852Are you really thick? Maybe she's not relaxed? Did she wince when you tried to put it in?
>>34900852Sometimes you just hit a weird angle and it's far easier if the girl grabs your penis and positions it, since she know right where the hole is.But that's something that just happens once in a while, in my experience.I have no idea how you managed to not achieve penetration.Where you feeling pain or discomfort?You simply did not know where the hole was?Is this post bait?Where you trying to shove your dick in her belly button?I'm a bit confused, you could just put her in Doggystyle and see what's going on. It's not that complicated.
The hell you mean "it won't go in?" There's a hole, did you try sticking it in the hole?
>>34900864>Are you really thick?I don't have anyone to compare to but I don't think so?>>34900864>Did she winceNah she didn't really react at all so I would say she didn't feel much apparently.>>34900869No I promise it's not bait, I wasn't feeling any pain or discomfort and yeah it felt like I was just hitting skin, like there wasn't a big enough hole to go into.>>34900870Well I know but it just wouldn't open up and i was too scared to push any further, I wasn't sure if maybe it would hurt either of us. Maybe I just need to be more forceful? But she asked me to be gentle so I didn't want to go too hard.
>>34900852Assuming you're in missionary:- Gently spread her labia apart to make sure they're not stuck together. (I know that sounds goofy, but sometimes it happens!)- Take hold of your penis between finger and thumb.- Line up the tip of your penis with her clitoris, just above the vagina. - Gently push forward with your hips. - With your thumb, press the top of your penis shaft downwards (i.e. towards your feet), and then the head should just slip in.But if you're new to sex, it's a lot easier to ask her to do it!
Buy lube. My ex and I were able to go from dry to sex in seconds. You should not need to force and if you do you risk causing injury.Also, be more patient with yourselves. Sex is 10x more fun without any expectations. You're two naked grown ass adults, that's more than enough to have shittons of fun.
>You simply did not know where the hole was?I mean I think I do? I can literally see it when I look down there but my dick misses it every time..>it's a lot easier to ask her to do it!I feel like she wanted me to take the lead so I don't wanna let her down lol.
>>34900999Highly likely you weren't hard enough. It's a hole, if you put a rigid object in it it'll self-guide. Put a soft object that gets softer under focus and it'll bunch up. Have her warm you up and put it in literally as soon as you feel readier. And again. LUBE.
>>34900999>my dick misses it every time..You are aware that you have to guide it in by hand, right?
>>34900852>Now I'm worried she'll think I'm less of a man because I couldn't manage to go in.If she does, then she isn't worth it.This is not worth spending your time worrying about >>34900999>I don't wanna let her downSee above.Next time, don't just eat her out, but use your fingers to explore too. Be sure to cut your nails the day before.
>>34900852Use lube
>you weren't hard enoughI feel like I was pretty darn hard though??>You are aware that you have to guide it in by hand, right?yes I did that!
>>34901040Well, we've given you all the tools. Sex is not complicated there's no magic bean you're missing. You need to be hard, she needs to be lubricated and warmed up, insert I into O. I tend to like to start with extremely short strokes - they work well to get us both warmed up, then proceed to more.
>>34901040Learn to fucking quote, newshit.
>>34900852If she actually likes you, it will be fine
I don't think she deserves to be called "bitch" for all of the patience she had with you
>>34901257doubling on thisa lot of actual bitches would've kicked you out lmfao
>>34900852>no trouble with much bigger guys beforekek
>>34901618KEK
I always just grab my dick with my hand and go up and down and part the lips and it also naturally lines the head and then on an upstroke just let it slip in. Makes me hard just thinking about the process.
>>34901931*naturally LUBES the headAlso first time I tried to tag team a friend’s girl, I couldn’t get it in her ass and I felt like a loser cuck because basically I was just whacking it while he fucked his girlfriend in front of me. She sucked on it a little but not to finish and he wouldn’t let me have pussy in case rare chance I got her pregnant.
>>34901925imagine hearing that from a girl you're trying (and failing) to fuck
>>34901999>imagine hearing that from a girl you're trying (and failing) to fuckIKR she might as well be laughing in his face at that point. It's so funny.
>>34901999>>34902019Maybe the girl is fat. Fat girls can be tricky especially if it’s dark.
>>34901618Y'know I tried to skim past that line cause maybe OP is secure in his masculinity or whatever but like. While you're trying to fuck? KEKIf OP wasn't a dumb virgin I'd tell him to move on
>>34902028my sides are in orbit>>34902019i think women know how much of an ego destroyer it is to say that but they act like they don't know>>34902029lol. he should still move on
>>34902029>If OP wasn't a dumb virgin I'd tell him to move on>>34902048>he should still move onUnpopular opinion maybe but am I the only one who feels like it's really not that big of a deal? Like .we always to praise opennes and honest communication but what's it for if we're just gonna judge ppl for doing it. She clearly knows OP better than we do and if she feels like i'ts not gonna offend him or hurt his feelings then who are we to say it's wrong.
>>34902221I just about kicked a chick out of my bed for telling me she got fucked without a condom on. There's a time and place, and it's not when we're fucking for the first time.
>>34900852actually remember my first tmeit was pretty hard to get it in actuallyespecially if the girl has hips that angle awayyou kinda want to make sure she has her legs spread and kinda rises her hips in that casealso, if she didn't help out by guiding it with her hands then that's just her fault not yours
>we always to praise openness and honest communicationOnly libtards would say that. Clearly some things are best left unsaid.
>>34902309>she got fucked without a condomur a pussy if ur not willing to do it raw btw
am girlso even if a girl is turned on and relaxed, the vaginal opening can be a tight at first. it's a muscle after all, so it definitely can take effort sometimes and especially so if she hasn't done anything penetrative in a while. spreading her labia minora and using a little bit of lube helps a lot. instead of trying to shove your entire dick at once guide the tip with your hand on your shaft and do shallow thrusts to warm her up. or fingers first, duh. if it comes down to it you can ask her to bear down which will help expand the vagina
I have the opposite problem OP my girl is really tight at first but after working with my fingers she gets really wet and loosens up, and since I am a dumbass who did deathgrip masturbation for a while my dick is kinda numb so I can't feel a whole lot. Whereas I fucked some black girl who wasn't as wet and I came in 5 minutes. But also her pussy might have a different shape or something. I feel bad because the asian chick I'm dating now I can't cum with her but she's such a great girl. And I could never cum with my ex-gf but she was fat and loose and this skinny jeeta I banged was pretty tight but she made me wear a condom so I couldn't cum.
>>34902506>am girlhey girl u wanna fuck (:
>u wanna fuckLMFAO.
>>34902381>if she didn't help out by guiding it with her hands then that's just her fault not yourswell maybe she doesnt know how to either, if all the guys she was with just did it themselves
>>34900852>she had no trouble with much bigger guys before>our first timeWho's gonna tell him?
>>34900852>She tells me she had no trouble with much bigger guys before
fuck I didn't even know sex could be this hard I hope I don't manage to mess it up this bad in my first time, I'm trying to get away with pretending I'm not a virgin. I mean I thought I knew what to do, with all the porn I see, but maybe not. fuck guys I might miss the hole.
>>34900852Did she use her hand to try to put your penis in her vagina?
>>34901618>>34901999>>34902464>>34902723>>34902750How insecure do you have to be for this to bother you
>>34902839As insecure as the average rightoid
>>34902839Huh? I'm making fun of the OP who thinks it is... well, could be... THEIR first time, when it's only HIS first time, and the woman will most probably have sexual intercourse with several other men before OP figures out how to stick it in. Hope this helps.
>>34903036OP didn't even claim it was her first time
>>34900852>>34900864>>34900870she's purposely blocking you. 100% she's trying to play you. you can't have sex with her unless its rape if she's like this there is no point to even try.hope you didn't waste money on her up to this point because if you did you got scammed.>>34900869you can't see shit in doggystyle. also it's easy for her to block you by in this pose. usually you have to go out of your way to get her to position herself properly since they always try to be as uncomfortable as possible.
>>34902839>How insecure do you have to be for this to bother youfr lmao
>>34903036>I'm making fun of the OP who thinks it is... well, could be... THEIR first timeBy definition it is.>>34903036>the woman will most probably have sexual intercourse with several other menYou're either retarded or a troll. Probably both.
>>34903064>she's trying to play you. you can't have sex with her unless its rapeWhat are you talking about fucking faggot virgin?!
>>34902506>you can ask her to bear downWhat do you mean by that?
>>34902028No she's average-sized, a bit on the smaller side actually. Maybe that's why it's harder to get it in. I come here for advice not to get laughed at
>>34903064mikely yeah.
>>34900852Can't believe nobody has asked this yet, but are you circumcised? The foreskin naturally creates movement that makes it easier to go in.
>>34902839Probably just convinced a beautiful virgin will propose to them one day, and that you're a fool for meddling with hoes
>>34905938>are you circumcised?No .
>>34902839you have to be very secure to refuse to pay full price for used goods!>She tells me she had no trouble with much bigger guys before>started licking her pussy
if there hasn't been any piv in a while and she doesn't finger herself for masturbation the vagina can become really tight. in this situation you might need up to 30 mins of foreplay to make it easier. but if you have sex the next day again you'd notice it's much easier suddenly.
>>34900852first of all don't call her a bitch if she was patient with you. just the basics.second of all, sometimes its easier if she gets on top. last time i had sex with a virgin he couldn't get it in either so i had him lay down and got on top. in my case he couldnt get it in because he was a virgin and i was really tense because i liked him a lot.maybe try some foreplay with her? get a taste of that kitty and put your fingers to use to relax her? maybe get her to come once before putting it in. that usually helps. or maybe try lubricants. have fun.
>>34907837>he couldnt get it in because he was a virginWhat does that have to do with anything?
>>34907458>>She tells me she had no trouble with much bigger guys before>>started licking her pussyother way around dimwit
sometimes women can get something called vaginismus, its abnormal tightening of the vaginal muscles! it's involuntary, and maybe she should go get checked out by a doctor
>>34908395does it make a difference
>>34907520>if there hasn't been any piv in a while and she doesn't finger herself for masturbation the vagina can become really tight. in this situation you might need up to 30 mins of foreplay to make it easier. but if you have sex the next day again you'd notice it's much easier suddenly.I second this.>>34907837>get her to come onceHonestly I've tried this many times and it's a crapshoot. Sometimes you get lucky but it's really inconsistent and varies from girl to girl. Sometimes they just fake it :/
>>34907837>sometimes its easier if she gets on top.Why?
Any updates anon?
Using the crass logo for this post is ironic and hilarious. Ill bet she thinks fascists are sexy.
Do you have a banana shaped weiner that folds when you try to push it in? If you pop a boner in your pants does it shape like an upside down U? Enjoyable sex is very hard to achieve when you have such a dick. The only fun nut I ever busted was with her on top riding it. I grabbed her hips and forcefully ground her pussy on the underside of my boner. Regular poking is very unsatisfactory for me.
>>34908420It exists but it's painful for the woman, and OP said she is does not show any signs of discomfort so it's probably not that.Do finger play, you will loosen her up some and you will get to know what her vagina is shaped like, maybe it will make it easier for you to navigate your penis into her.
>>34900852(>shameless bump.).
