I have many videogames to play, books to read, projects to do, things that I want to learn and other stuff I want to do.I have the time to do them but I don't and spend my days lurking 4chan, watching YT videos that I do not care about and other meaningless stuff. It's like I spend the day waiting to go to bed every single day.Do I have Abulia?Or maybe it's because i'm depressed because i'm an Incel like pic related implies?Anyone has managed to break out of this thing?It's been at least 4 years now that i'm like this. Thinking of starting to do some sport and detox from the internet.
>>34901362Yeah bro you are depressed as shitTry a sport or somethingExercise seriously helps
Exercise is always a good answer no matter the question. But what you should do for abulia is to go to the doctor.
>>34901362that pic is sad. you basically arent alive unless you have a gf. and you basically need a gf to get a gf
>>34902097None of it is true. Happiness and motivation have to come from within, otherwise they disappear the moment the relationship disappears, and no relationship lasts forever.
I feel this same exact way. Its been years and I just simply can't get over it. I go out daily and work on the farm but even then I have just lost all interest in games, and hobbies. Idk anon, it's a battle of will power or something.
Have you considered doing anything meaningful, ever? Honestly, your life sounds like punishment. Shit's empty, and will leave you empty. You should fix that.
>>34902154I hate to say it anon, but life is often a tragedy. There are probably hundreds of millions of men in the world right now, who lost the love of their life and are miserable about it. And isn't that how it should be? We wouldn't know the highs if we didn't know the lows. We wouldn't appreciate love if life felt just as good without it.Anyway, this anon >>34902213 is right. You can't spend your life living like you're a prisoner passing time by working out with big weights and reading books from the prison library. You have to find something meaningful to do. Altruism, money, whatever matters to you, you have to chase it or you'll never get the spark of motivation. Need to be hungry for something and chase it.
OP here, thanks all for the advices. I will start doing things to get an objective then like drawing to publish some of the drawing, coding to put on github the projects for other to use/fork while enjoying the process (And trying to not get "competitive" so I will do it because I enjoy it instead of keep comparing to others if that makes sense) and see if something changes. Also in 2 week I will go to a gym to get better and maybe escaping inceldom that probably played a big role in me becoming like these. That's what I'm getting from all the replies
Hate to be this guy, but the usual advice of "be happy on your own" is coming from an American mindraped world view of dog eat dog and extremely high independence to an unhealthy degree. We all need people, and young lonely men need a woman in their life. And if it's not their mom (a lot of us had an absent or abusive mom, for me my mom was abusive and father was absent and an enabler) then it has to be a gf. Idk what to tell you chum, I'm as lost as you are. Maybe I'll try the exercise pill everyone's selling, again
>>34901362im exactly like you, and im trying to solve this. go outside unironically. yesterday i just walked through my city park at midnight just to escape being in my house and doom scrolling youtube and refreshing 4chan threads. ended up discovering a party that was happening in a bar, got there alone, got drunk, talked to some random people, got home and slept. sometimes just sitting in a public park doing nothing and thinking about life is better than being at home.
>>34901362I'm in the same boat as you man. I have so many creative desires but they all are wasted consuming slop. Doesn't help that most modern products are actually slop anyways so nothing feels fun.
