I honestly feel like dog shit when communicating with women. I am definitely more of a texter and one of the women that I would like to go out on dates with doesn't text me first ever. I am trying to build that sort of rapport with her but its nearly impossible because it feels like I am bothering her everytime I text her. Ontop of that, I have to text something like "Hey how was your weekend" which I know is very weak conversation wise. But what else can I say? I feel foolish texting her like this. Realistically, I want to ask her out on a date but I am currently not in a position to do so because I am out of town for training for work. However, It'd be like 3 weeks before I am back. What I want to do is tell her this but I don't want to not communicate with her I guess. This sounds like a mess. To sum it up, I can't ask this woman out for about 3 weeks. Should I just leave her alone or periodically text her to stay in contact? She never texts me first which makes me feel like she is not really into me. She never seems annoyed when I text her though.
As far as effort goes as well, how much effort should go into communication? I'd just like for my effort to be reciprocated I guess.
>>34901693Youre an insecure pussy who has poor social skills anon. Thats the reality. Also, theres no such thing as not being able to communicate...with just women. I bet youre really poor at communication with anyone. I bet you look down a lot, mumble, say shit under your breath, and stutter. You really need to build up some self-confidence first and foremost. Go lift weights and step out of your comfort zone. And to build up confidence with communication the solution is really simple; just start talking to people. Not just cute girls, men, women, old people, young people ect. Go outside into the world and just start striking up conversations with random people. It will be awkward and weird at first but I promise it will get easier the more you do it.
>>34901693If she doesn't reciprocate immediately and enthusiastically then she's not that into you. It should never feel like pulling teeth.
>>34904835I am autistic and can bench 315 pounds. I think I am okay fitness wise. Just incredibly autistic which hampers my social skills I guess. I am more insecure about my autism ruining things for me and not realizing it. >>34904860I see. It kind of feels like pulling teeth. Which is unfortunate because I do like her but the non-reciprocation really messes with me.
>>34901693>>34904860Seconded. Not one of my matches on dating apps where I had to text first ever worked out, even if they didn't seem annoyed when we talked.Normally asking her out would be the true test to this, but since you can't do that right now, I'd probably try to make the conversation fun rather than keeping the ball rolling just for the sake of it ("I saw this movie trailer wdyt", "btw [random question]")Then again, I have L rizz.
