Actually gonna post this in general. As somewhat of a gymcel (my social skills are ok in professional settings but I may have some form of tism) how to go about finding a qt shy gf? I feel very paternal and protective towards quiet insecure girls, but I live in a very extroverted party area so to speak, lots of bars not a lot of bookstores. Pic rel is me, so I think I might come on too strong for those types of girls. I’m very forward and upfront with women generally. I hate dating apps and will not use them again. This archetype of women seems exceedingly rare in my experience but it may be just where I live.
Make lots of friend girls before getting a girlfriend. You're hot shit anon, and don't let any jackass nerd tell you otherwise.
>>34902609Yea I know that. I get a lot of stares from girls, I just feel like my tastes are so particular and I feel like I need to be in love with a girl to have sex with her if that makes sense.
>>34902599I don't know the answer to this but I feel the same way as you, bro.Only way I met girls anything like this myself was in science classes in school/university, they're hard to find.
>>34902623I’m out of uni rn and financially fucked. I lost a lot of potential I had in uni due to a combination of substance abuse and being an insecure loser who couldn’t socialize properly. I have work at least and am attempting to start my own business so I can get out of this shitty situation I created for myself.
>>34902599im very timid and i fantasize about dating an attractive white guy a lot. ive never used a dating app and never had a desire to, but im heavily considering downloading one because i also don't know what to do to successfully connect with guys like you. maybe you should just try cold approaching. ive been approached by men more than a few times but i wasn't physically attracted to them so i always declined. seeing as you get stares from women you'll probably be more successful, especially if you're extra gentle with your approach.
>>34902672I’ve cold approached a few times and got shut down, again I think I’m too forward. I don’t really use social media that much so I just ask for girls numbers which might be too much desu. I’ll try to be more gentle with my approach I guess. Also where you from anon?
>>34902683i live on the east coast in the us. if you have insta, it could be lower stakes for the girl to ask her for either her number or insta, or even to give her your username on a post it note so she can go on your profile and see the type of guy that you are. honestly im not sure if thats a dumb a idea but i think that could be less intimidating
>>34902599just keep in mind that shy cute gf is also ran through
>>34903206Gotta build a nice profile then I guess. I have one but don’t really post ever. This might be for the best anyways since I’m trying to build an online brand anyways. Thanks anon also I’m east coast too.
>>349033961/5 Gen Z girls have never had any sexual experience, stop incel fear mongering.
>>34903586do you live in miami? i don't, but it's the only place over here can think of that's big on partying lol
>>34903674Delaware beach towns, full of a lot of surfer guys and gals and fishermen. No hate to these kinds of people they’re nice people but I feel like I have little in common with them and my naturally shy and timid nature kind of sells me when trying to make friends. I’m much more of a nerd so to speak, I like building computers, warhammer, chess, philosophy, that sort of stuff.
>>34904144that sounds like such a fun place to grow up.... beach towns are so easy to romanticize. i live in the burbs outside of dc and it's always been extremely boring. thankfully ive always been able to find a few girlies who get me
>>34904280I didn’t grow up here lol, just live here. I grew up outside of dc also in suburbs. I was a rich kid born with a silver spoon in his mouth and lost a lot of that potential through poor character. Was born and grew up in the wealthiest district in the country. I think it’s for the best that I don’t live around there anymore anyways, everyone is constantly at each others throats trying to prove that they’re better than one another. Wealth attracts the wicked.
