how do I cope with the fear of being abandoned by the ones that are closest to me.I've been talking to this person for like almost 4 years now online and we met up a few times IRL too, last time was in summer. The thing is that I am super dependent on her because she has pretty much been the only one I could trust for those 4 years. Recently however, she has barely been responding to my messages and I am really scared she doesn't really like me at all and just keeps being around me out of pity or whatever.Our relationship has never been romantic, nor do I wish it to be.Obviously I cannot explain this to her directly, and I'm too afraid to talk about this with my psychologist. What the fuck do I do now?
>i am super dependent on herthere's the problem anondevelop and value yourself more than anyone elsepeople are always temporary and a lot do not stick around despite how much you want them to. accept the possibility, consider how fine you will be after, life goes on
>>34904178>develop and value yourself more than anyone elsethat's literally impossible. Unfortunately I am a loser foid with no other friends but her. I'm dependent on her because of that, and what she did for me.>people are always temporaryI refuse to believe that, even though it's partly true. The hard part is coping with that.
I get you I recently broke up with my narcissist bf and I trusted him with everything so I'm in the same situation right now but he really made me not a fan of him with being a narcissist manipulative and more also gave me trust issues because he would threaten to tell everybody my secrets and if I told him that I don't like it he would call me paranoid and he did that a lot and I told it to him a ton of times
