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What should I do if I'm a 34 year old loser who has no friends, never had a gf, no job, education and has health issues and barely leaves my bedroom

I tried to go to therapy but it didn't help

I really can't see any other option other than killing myself
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>>34904382
What do you want to do?
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If you can't get a girlfriend you become the girlfriend that's my plan
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Start at the bottom
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>>34904391
I'd like to be a writer but I've nothing to write about
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>>34904382
Cope or rope. Call it.
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>>34904403
Also, this is only half of the story. How do you achieve these goals? You need to find a few principles that will guide you. You don't need a lot of them since many of them are derived from just a few fundamental principles. One of the most important one for me personally:
Don't be a lying faggot. Unless you're brown in which case its part of your culture and you need to piss from this white board
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>>34904494
even if you did, AI exists. art for money/success is dead. jobs that rely on thinking > physical labor are dying, and physical labor will be when AI gets massproduced robot bodies in the next few years. god you guys who have never tried anything and are just starting to care are so fucked right now and don't even know how bad.
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>>34904514
Sneed
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>>34904403
Not OP
I'm always stuck on safety needs
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>>34904761
Who knows. We have survived the industrial revolution.
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>>34904382
I don't know anon. Life is never easy, how you face it largely depends on your daily mood. If you're feeling terrible you will feel everything hard and terrible. If you're feeling great maybe you feel everything hard and rewarding. Don't avoid effort I guess.
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im not trying to be judgemental but fuck is there a lot of neets and losers on here
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>>34904382
I am also a 34 year old loser.

I recently ran my credit card into the ground and incurred so much debt that I have become desperate for a job.

I don't know how to express this but suicide is not even remotely an option for me. I don't have the capacity to be suicidal I think, so I think suicide is neurochemical.

I would just decide that suicide is off the table and go throw yourself at some life situations and see if things fit.

If you are on social security just stay with that program and get a part time job or something. You have to learn to think everything is tha juice and try to learn to code a game or something. Do it for fun just to dick around.

The danger is taking life seriously. At 34 I don't even get horny anymore so finding a girlfriend is not even really a priority. I'm just aware that half of it is over already probably and I have to find something to do. I will probably pick up weed here later today or maybe tomorrow.

I like marijuana and coffee and that keeps me going.

In my opinion, find a dickaround hobby. Don't take anything seriously at all. You could just be chronically under stimulated and need something to do. Try stretching or something.



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