I broke up with my ex a while ago, and recently he came to see me because he wanted to apologize for some things and talk about life. We spent two days talking in person, and during those days he spent a lot of money buying junk food for me and even sushi (which is one of my favorite foods), even though I told him I didn't need it and that he shouldn't buy it.He didn't say anything about wanting to get back together, but I found it strange because when we broke up he insulted me a lot and threw my past traumas in my face. Maybe I shouldn't have agreed to see him, but I just don't understand what he wants.
>>34905064I hoped to get back in touch with my ex for one last time. My goal isn't to get back together, but just so she can help me get things back in order in my head. Our last encounter left marks on my mind, I developed paranoia etc. This would help me to recognize what is real and what not. I lost friends on my side as a result of what I experienced in the aftermath. But since I'm so sensitive it would be possible that I would react similar to your bf
>>34905064define allot of money? (if its over 60 i would consider it flirting)you can just be direct and ask why he abruptly reached out? but after 2 days someone should've got to the point?