Throwing this here in hopes i can find a better prespective.I have decided to never date/marry or interact with any woman unless there is a necessity, i can not find a single logical reason to be with a woman, i have been falsely accused twice, i survived but i am still traumatized by these experiences, but other than the false accusations my experiences with women were good.AND THAT'S THE ISSUE, i have had lots of good experiences and lots of fun with women throughout my life, by all metrics i should be more open to relationships, but these two bad experiences occupy my mind despite surviving them, but its not just the false accusations, the idea of marriage also scares me, the family courts and divorce laws are very biased against men especially in my country, it makes the idea of marriage sound suicidal or dumb at best to me.I thought of being a fuck boy and just fucking and dumping one after another but this gives me no fulfillment, and it still remains dangerous to some extent. I see that abstaining from relationships may be the best option for me as i value my survival and well being, but i am afraid that i might be wrong so i am here to see what you guys think. Are relationships really worth it? I think i can live a happy fulfilling life just making money/art and doing sports, but i am afraid that there might be something i am not seeing.
>unless there is a necessityThere never will be one >Are relationships really worth it?No> I think i can live a happy fulfilling life just making money/art and doing sportsCorrect >but i am afraid that there might be something i am not seeing.You'd have to want a relationship with a woman despite the risk. That's true for all things that you'll want to have. It happens that being with another person is the riskiest investment.
>>34905708Is the destruction of my life and the extreme vulnerable position i put myself in by being with a woman a worthy risk? I cant imagine a single woman that deserves endangering my life for like that.
>>34905855>is___ a worthy risk Literally up to you
>>34905692don't do anything until a better idea or solution presents itself. in the meantime, prepare yourself for it.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Af-k9sTAYEQ&ra=m
>>34905855>>34905692Whatever happens to you doesn't affect me, and you don't sound like you're willing to change.You've heard enough all there is to say about this, and the reason you made the thread for is reassurance. If you have issues about people, talk with a therapist.
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>>34905692>I have decided to never date/marry or interact with any woman unless there is a necessityI met my most recent gf the month after I did this. Sounds like you'll be gearing up for your next best relationship soon anon. Love you.
>>34907608How am i supposed to be comfortable in a relationship with somdone who holds the power to destroy my life if they ever wish to? And if the relationship leads to marriage then they can fuck me over even worseI do get approached by girls, but nowadays i view them as a threat, i cant get past my mental barrier and i am not sure if it is wrong to think this way or not
