Looked up my highschool crush. She got married, had kids, and has a good life. I wish her well, but I will always wonder if that could have been my life with her. If so, it would have been amazing. Even so, I'm genuinely happy for her and wish I could tell her so. Unfortunately, I was always an introvert back then, so there would be no way to do this in an appropriate manner. It would just come across as weird and possibly creepy. I don't want a relationship of any kind with her, not even a friendship. That ship has sailed. ...but I would like to congratulate her and tell her I'm happy she did so well in life.