I have a poor perception of dating and relationships I think. I see my friends in relationships and it seems like it just a never ending schedule of things the girlfriend wants / has to do and the guy has to tag along. Prime example, my friend is going with his girlfriend to her family banquet thing of some sort. Then he has to go to some other gathering with her. Then she wanted to travel to Disney Land etc. All this shit would make me vomit if I had a girlfriend making me do all that shit. I think this is stems from me having a very disjoint family. I never had to go to family functions and still to this day never go to family functions. I don't hate my family. I just don't like hanging out with most of my family. So what is default? Do women really drag their boyfriends to all this shit? I hate events. If I had a girlfriend, my biggest fear is her making me do all this shit and then I am not really making her do anything. I am not a needy person and I am not really fiending to make someone do stuff with me. Is it me that is the issue?
>>34907523>Do women really drag their boyfriends to all this shit?No, they don't "drag" their boyfriends at all. It's a relationship dude, it's give and take. Sometimes you have to do something you wouldn't like to do alone but you'll do it with the person you love if they want you to. If you're friend can't put up the boundary of "we're not just going to do just your stuff all the time" then that relationship will 100% crash and burn. You have a poor understanding of relationships that's for sure. You see them as one sided when a relationship is a two player game.
i was under the impression you do shit you want to do and bring an interested girl along and occasionally do shit she wants to do and the two of you just do cool shit togetherbut this is also a big world with diverse people and perspectives and you can have whatever relationship you wanti didn't read any further than that bc wall of text
>>34907542>wall of text>200 words??? do you just sit on tiktok all day, since when is a single paragraph a wall of text. Why bother coming to /adv/ if you struggle to read.
>>34907540>You have a poor understanding of relationships that's for sure. You see them as one sided when a relationship is a two player game.I get it is a two player game. But I feel like a player two with no controller. I would never bring her to any of my family functions because I don't have family functions. So inevitably, it would just be me having to do her functions because I am not going to make her do anything for the most part. I think a lot of this stems from my perception of what people in relationships do with each other. I have never been in one so I don't know. The bottom line, my life is simple. My family ties are very few. I have next to no obligations besides going to work to pay the few bills I have. I have no dependents. I just perceive relationships in my case as being a bunch of things that I now have to do and hardly anything the woman would have to do. However, I would like to be in a relationship. That much I do know.
>>34907549because on my giant ass monitor with my vision reading your non-sequitur stream of consciousness with no line breaks is miserable and because fuck you that's whyis that the only thing you got from my reply or are you just that much of a pussy
>>34907584not op, I was just pointing out the deterioration of the average retards attention span
>>34907554>I would never bring her to any of my family functions because I don't have family functions.>So inevitably, it would just be me having to do her functions because I am not going to make her do anything for the most part.Do you have nothing going on in your life?Do you not like going for a walk?Do you not have a hobby? No shit it would be a one sided relationship when you bring nothing to it.
There's no point in talking to women in 2026. It's easier to just ignore them and go about your normal life.
>>34907592yeah there's a thing called formatting it's existed since the dawn of printwhy are you acting like an anon's attention span on... 4chan... is worth anything more than the sweat off your ballsack?
>>34907598Why the fuck would you come to a board you know people use to vent, get things off their chest, ask for advice and expect fully formatted peer reviewed posts? I'm flabbergasted, are you actually stupid or just pretending?
>>34907611did i expect? or did i just say i didn't read further than that because wall of text?you're making this a big thing, you're being a huge hyperfocusing autistic faggot and derailing op's thread, go the fuck away
>>34907614Yes, yes you did. That's what is implied by your posts.>i didn't read any further than that bc wall of text>reading your non-sequitur stream of consciousness with no line breaks is miserable>yeah there's a thing called formatting it's existed since the dawn of prinIf you didn't have a reasonable expectation of proper formatting you would never type the above. >you're making this a big thing, you're being a huge hyperfocusing autistic faggot and derailing op's thread, go the fuck awayYou're the retard who couldn't look past formatting and read 200 words without having to complain about it.
>>34907627again, you're derailing the thread and hyperfocusingeverything i said was only in response to youcan you stop being a fucking faggot and either help OP or fuck offi really don't care to engage with you anymore
>>34907632I've said my piece to op.I just hate people like you who don't bother to think for more than 30 second and just spew out the first shit that comes to their mind. You have the audacity to come to this board and think they can give any useful advice, it's fucking pathetic. Honestly interacting with people who are clearly too stupid to realise their own stupidity is so frustrating.
>>34907645yeah i'm not reading that wall of textkill yourself faggot
>>34907649>knows it's true>time for ad hominem attacksThanks for the confirmation retard!
>>34907680knows what's truei saw your reply scrolling pasti'm genuinely not reading that or anything else you poststop wasting both our timecaptchas are not nearly fun enough for me to spend any more time on you
>>34907682You were raped by him btw