Not sure if this is even a personal thing or something all straight men are dealing with. But throughout my entire life, all the women I’ve dated, been in relationships with and known whether it’s friends, coworkers or family are all objectively insane and find a way to negatively affect my life. Whether it’s cheating, lying, emotional abuse or just doing major shit that flat out ruined my life.My mother was totally insane and abusive growing up. Made a massive deal about my every move I made and tried to make me feel bad about everything I did and the friends I had and hated my high school girlfriend for no reason at all. She was a total nut case and made my life an hell from when I was little until after high school when I moved out of her house. She’s now only in her 60s but might as well have dementia because she’s still bat shit insane.The girl I was with right after high school lied about being on birth control and got purposely pregnant. Had to live with her to raise our daughter for 9 years until she decided to start fucking guys she met online and then left me to marry this dude she was friends with since they were kids. Then she alienated my daughter from my life, until she was diagnosed BPD then moved down to Florida and left the BPD daughter with me.In between that and my next long term relationship I dated a bunch of the craziest bitches you could possibly imagine. One of them threatened to burn my house down and started stalking me after we broke up. One of them told me she was married two months after we started dating and cheated on her husband so they were getting divorced.
The next woman in my life was too good to be true. She was beautiful, smart, creative and cultured. We shared all the same niche interests and really felt like soulmates. But then after being together for 8 years her social media literally started warping her personality. She started doing stuff with other people more than me, acting better than me, doing everything for attention and then one day decides she doesn’t think she’s attracted to men anymore and wants to be gay so not long after leaves me to be with a lesbian only to realize the woman doesn’t want to be with her and neither do any other gay women. So she then tells me she thinks she wasn’t actually gay after I started dating other people and gets into a long distance relationship with some guy who followed her on instagram, and who is still married and living with his wife. She breadcrumbs me constantly and comes over to hang sometimes and calls me all the time but still doesn’t want to come back to me because she’s “in love” with this guy who she’s only spent two weekends with out of the 8 months they’ve “been together”. And she is living in her grandmothers basement and constantly broke instead of coming back to house we lived in and where the business we still co-op is located. She even says she misses our old life but refuses to get back with me because of how much she wants to be with this fucking guy who clearly has no intention of being with her like he says. Dude hasn’t even left his wife yet.This girl im dating now is starting to act like all the things I didn’t like about the previous relationship. Constant man hate rhetoric, social signaling, acting like she’s better than me, having complete shit taste in everything and nothing in common with me but still acting like we should be together. Saying stuff sucks that is objectively awesome and anyone cool that I’ve ever know was into.How do I find one that won’t eventually suck, or should I just give up hope?
Damn. Life just keeps happening to you, huh? If only there was a way to stop communicating with people who throw up red flags and to focus more on people who don't do that. Oh well.
>>34907991I’m trying really hard to not be like an incel and say that all women are crazy but even when they don’t show red flags they end up making your life hell. I was with the good one for 8 years and even the social brainwashing was too much to not turn her into a shit person. The problem is they morph. Any bit of social influence can twist a woman’s personality into something completely unrecognizable.I do want to stop feeling this way about modern day western world women and accept their narrative that men are the problem and it’s not 90% them causing their own problems they want to project, but with all the shit women have put me through I feel hopeless that I will ever perceive them as anything but totally irrational mentally afflicted beings that are foreign to every human standard we’ve held for the vast majority of civilization. They are like bratty children and seem to be almost completely incapable of thinking for themselves.Take the picrel in my OP for example. They had to make a $500M box office movie that requires mental gymnastics to conclude it’s not crazy women that are the problem it’s lonely men and incels. And all that shit just continues to give them their confirmation bias and further facilitate the decay of women’s personalities in society which have basically just become a daily routine of “how can I suck even more as a person and make a man’s life hell today?”
>>34908088Maybe you do need to feel that way and start facing some harsh realities because clearly what you've been doing has been a complete catastrophe.
>>34908088You should read some novels from the 1800s and see how they portray women.
>>34907964>I can't stop needing aDon't need one. What do ya need one for? To have kids? You already got one. Want more?
>>34907964>>34907986I think God might be telling you to stop pretending that cheating is wrong and just accept it as a normal everyday thing that's done by people who are basically distant. It sounds to me like your experiences are informed by the mindset of a vulnerable narcissist, too.Anyway, I hope you get cheated on again. And when it happens, don't pretend to be a victim.
