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we broke up cause of literal distance moving,???, and time, shes a nice vaguely tismed 27yo
~100+ miles away, visited 5x before we broke up
its been 7 months and i started missing her

we're friends now after talking online. i think hitting on her is a bad idea but shes visiting my city on unrelated work so i feel retarded

I feel like iv accidentally flirted with her a few times.

shes hasnt seen anyone or been on dates so theres that

but nothing has changed at all so i dont think it would last even if i or we tried.

I think i mixing up kindness and misconstruing it as affection from her
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>>34908704
If she loves the same as then and you feel the same as well then its love.
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>>34908711
thanks anon...but i fear my perspective is a little too optimistic from my perspective of the breakup, as she must have had reasons i dont fully understand. I am seeing her and a few mutual friends for a play but i dont think it means anything as it was more of a group invite, then a "hey you should come"
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>>34908704
>shes hasnt seen anyone or been on dates so theres that
She's lying through her teeth to you, bro.
Women need attention to survive, like fish need water. Even if she's telling the truth about not going on dates or she hasn't gotten physical with anyone (which I doubt), she's at the very least talking to other options. Even if you decide to get back together there's no guarantee she hasn't already met the guy she'll leave you for.
Stop torturing yourself over something that isn't gonna work out. Long distance relationships aren't real relationships anyway. Tell her you need to finally move on, block her, and find a new bitch. It's harsh but the sharpest knives cut the cleanest.
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>>34908704
Didn't you already ask this question?
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>>34913381
Different anon
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>>34913370
She didn't say that to me I have just been hearing it around from friends (without asking)



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