I have a “problem” where I block my friends or just stop talking to them permanently once I reach a point of frustration. Just ghosting them pretty much and they get all confused but I just can’t come back. I don’t really have a clear reason as to why I do it, but I mainly do it because I feel tied to them and I don’t want to be held down. It feels oppressive. I don’t have that good of empathy and I probably have narcissism just saying. It could be started by them saying something I disliked and I just cannot forgive them anymore because the bad thought haunts me every time I’m with them. My relationships last less than 2 years on average. But this one friend keeps coming back despite me ghosting him on multiple occasions. I want to ghost him yet again, telling him straight up I resent him but he gives me compelling logical things as to why I’m being like this. Even despite all that logic, my emotions and intuition are getting the better of me, and I just WANT to get rid of him. Please tell me, is this normal? Should I even fix it? I honestly don’t want to fix it. But I also don’t want to end up all alone and without anyone. It’s such a hard paradoxical thing. Please help me.
>>34909802You should fix it.If you dont, you will be alone.You are lucky your friend is chasing you in this moment.I feel like there is a different issue here where you are avoiding vulnerability with others because you suspect they will take advantage of you or something of that nature. This is leading you to quietly judge and dismiss them at the first sign of problems.What has your current friend done to you to betray your trust?Why arent you bringing this up with him?If you did bring it up to them and confront them on it, what do you think the likely result would be?
>>34909802I fucking hate insult to this situation where people call you narcissist when that's not what narcissist does. What a narcissistic does is confront the person what's wrong why things weren't like before and then threaten to end the friendship/relationship.I have this issue. It wasn't fixed up til now but I do know the reason behind it. It's a trust issue. I care so much about my friends and try to do stuff with them until they just go AWOL for different reasons. They just make up excuses and instead of just arguing with their bullshit you just ditch them no more drama.If they don't like to do things together then that's their problem and I won't include them in my life. Having them in my friends list just makes me think about them for someone irrelevant. They're not friends with that kind of relationship but merely acquaintance. Nothing to do with narcissistic when you cut them loose. I do my part helping them as a friend but they're even grateful but after that I felt used and get nothing in return.
>>34913923>What a narcissistic does is confront the person what's wrong why things weren't like before and then threaten to end the friendship/relationship.That's not what a narcissist does lmao which ass did you get this take fromNarcissists HATE confrontation and accountability, and they don't threaten, they just do it without asking
>>34909802>Ghosts could be here, he thought
>>34909802That's pretty good 2 years, a lot of women will block you after like 3 sentences.
>>34914484>That's not what a narcissist does lmao which ass did you get this take fromYes it does.The story of Narcissus from the mythology is where the term narcissism came from."self-centered personality style"Nothing self centered if you care about the people around you and don't care back at you and ignore you.>Narcissists HATE confrontation and accountability, and they don't threaten, they just do it without askinghttps://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/narcissisticKeywords: self-centered, self-importance, excessive admiration.None of that shit applies to ghosting and putting value to friendship. If your friends ain't acting like friends they're no friends.
>>34909802I have a "friend" like you. Sentimental people like me were put on earth literally to torture your type. The honest truth, for a person like me at least, if you just up and said to me "I don't want to be your friend anymore, please stop talking to me" I would literally never say another word to you as long as I lived.
>>34909802>I don’t have that good of empathy and I probably have narcissism just saying.>My relationships last less than 2 years on average>>34914663>That's pretty good 2 years, a lot of women will block you after like 3 sentences.Yeah with what the other anon said here. If women block you after having a failed date attempt then they're a narcissist in this regard? This is all just jargonized insults. There's nothing wrong with you. It's just the millennial boomers that says that trying to impose control over you since back then they couldn't run away from social norms in this age of privacy where ghosting is a thing.
