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Gave some deadpan response about how she's oppressing me because my body my choice and women shouldn't tell men what to do. I think she took it seriously as she didn't respond.

Another time a different cashier looked at my credit card and said oh we have the last name and I said my ethnicity. She said she's that too and I said oh cool then took my food.

Did these girls like me?

I really wish I had self confidence to respond to these situations properly.
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>>34911220
>Gave some deadpan response about how she's oppressing me because my body my choice and women shouldn't tell men what to do. I think she took it seriously as she didn't respond.
The power level is too great.
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>>34911220
Things that didn’t happen but IF a girl ever gives you a compliment, you’re supposed to compliment them back. Especially when they compliment other women. Girls love and die with compliments. Not incel wisdom it’s literally how female social groups operate. If a girl gives you a compliment and you don’t reciprocate, you might as well have just told her to go fuck herself. I didn’t know this for the longest time.
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>>34911220
They’re paid to small talk anon, you can safely assume they don’t care less about you. I intentionally go to the most awkward looking cashier chick every time; she won’t have any confidence to waste my time talking about some old bullshit and will be grateful for the silence as we get on with the task at hand.
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>>34911243
You come across as gay if you compliment back
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>>34911220
You should spend more time with people and realize people say things to make others feel better and in turn to feel helpful themselves. You attacked her for no reason with that MGTOW bullshit. She isn't a representative of feminism you know.

And yeah, she liked you enough to go out of her way to help a stranger, and from seeing her regularly a friendship could have been formed, with her doing you favors and sharing fun things with you, but no, feeling comfortable matters more to you.
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Sometimes anon, it is best that you not be affected by things like this.
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>>34911220
>I really wish I had self confidence to respond to these situations properly.


> I think she took it seriously as she didn't respond.

thats not self confidence you lacked. Its a sense of propriety. That response is low tier stuff to clown around here with, not something you'd utter to a somewhat polite stranger in public company.
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>>34911288
No they are not under any obligation to chit-chat with store customers while doing their job. They only do so if they are feeling sociable.
>>34911220
Congrats, you just ruined a foid's mood for the day kekek

I'm usually at a loss what to say to a checkout girl.
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What if it's the other way around? I didn't get a compliment, but she gave me one of the extra books that came with her order.



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