i have a restraining order against my ex that lasts for 6 months so i won't be able to talk to him again until next year... but his birthday is coming up next month and we're in the same discord group. we've been relatively no-contact for over 2 months now even though we saw each other on august 20th to talk and for me to give his things back... i'm wondering whether i should send a message in the group wishing him a happy birthday or just move on even though i want to talk to him and know how he's doing
>>34911516Please God, let this be bait.
Bitch if you went and got a restraining order against this man then do him a favor and leave his life forever. If you wanted him in your life you shouldn’t have taken legal action against him. Get real.
>>34911593you idiot i have one because the police saw us arguing in the middle of the street and had both of us taken into custody neither of us pressed charges the prosecutor was the one who issued the restraining order to prevent us from hurting each other
>>34911576instead of saying that you could help me? i don't know what to do i'd like to wish him a happy birthday and shower him with gifts
>>34911628The fact that you think this is a defense of you having this man in your life shows how absolutely unhinged you are. Do both of yourselves a favor and go meet new people. Do not speak to him again.
>>34911638how am i supposed to deal with it if he's the only person i want even just as a friend?
>>34911643Explain why you guys were fighting and what about
>>34911630hes your ex. dont give him hope.>>34911628if you have a prosecutor playing daddy for you two, your relationship must have been real dynamiteyour story sounds unhinged. whyd you even break up with him if youre mentally ready to crawl back at his feet?Did the prosecutor force this too?
>>34911649i punched him and i'd taken his keys and id and stuff and he was so exhausted and fed up that he broke down on the ground crying and that's when we were seen
>>34911765So the restraining order was placed on you and not him right?
>>34911780we both have one
>>34911913Doeasnt really seem all that bad then. If he still likes you then I don't see the problem with talking to him online and stuff.
>>34912030i don't know if he still likes me i think deep down he still dreams about me and thinks about me... apparently he read a book (the idiot by dostoevsky) and there was supposedly a character who reminded him of me and that character was even compared to a flower that had my name. but i left him a way to contact me through an encrypted messaging app similar to telegram and he didn't add me... and his birthday is coming up soon... i'd like to write him something heartfelt but i don't really know what to say... maybe the best thing would be to walk away right? we'll see each other next year anyway and it's unavoidable since we have to appear in court because of yet another case. i'm lost
>>34911516Lol. Just women being women.
>>34911516>have restraining order against ex-bf>probably a violent retard>foid can't stop thinking about it and gets wet to her memories of him abusing herI hate women so much. t. love from Kazakhstan
>>34912104If you think abusing women works, why don't you just go do it?
>>34912104read the post dumbass this is a bpdemon who hits her bf
>>34912104shut the fuck up next time i'm the one who was abusive and he's the one who left me you little cunt
>>34912078keep your misogyny to yourself you little bitch. i keep thinking about him because he was an angel throughout our relationship he wasn't perfect but he did everything he could to be. and i'm the one who kept having outbursts at him over and over again
>>34912198And those outbursts at him would stop if you got back together, RIGHT?
>>34912199OBVIOUSLY i've changed now i'm more stable and i have some outings i'd like to suggest to him like going to the catacombs with people who know what they're doing... waiting for him to become independent and distance himself from his mother and family for good... we could go for walks together hand in hand and leave all the negativity behind...
>>34912220That's hard to believe
>>34911630>instead of saying that you could help me?If a restraining order has been placed you not to contact him, then contacting him will be a breach of the restraining order, and you will probably go to prison. It would therefore probably be best not to contact him, don't you think?
>>34912237i'll shower him with love and give him the strength and support he needs to thrive to pursue his dreams to share his essence with the world and tell whatever story he wants to tell. i want him to be free to drift wherever the wind carries him. and i want to be there beside him, to be his breath of fresh air to travel with him beyond the world and down all its terrifying paths helping him carry the heavy burden of this miserable life.. together. with me. i've truly changed.
>>34912241if i go to prison for wishing him a happy birthday even though i'm legally not supposed to contact him honestly that would be pretty romantic...
>>34912277And this is why I'm praying this whole thread is bait.
>>34912294WHAT
>>34911516Women when you tell them to stop contacting their ex rapist who beat them every day
>>34912272I wish a girl truly loved me this way. But I know that if you are a girl, you're crazy and manipulating on an anonymous moose hairs embroidery forum, I'm not buying it, you're most likely a teeerrible fucking girlfriend, but if I could I would use you like a living fleshlight, I'd fuck you, creampie you, then fuck my creampie, 5 times throughout the night I'd refresh the creampie, by morning your pussy would smell like a marinated barn animal. You're my whore in my imagination. I'll cum tonight thinking about your pathetic beautiful body writhing and leaking under me, wet and hot. Helpless <3
>>34912272Yeah you're helping your case
so what should i do then? should i leave the discord group we have in common? and should i not wish him a happy birthday? tell me what i should do i'm really lost
>>34912648Your best bet is to find someone new to obsess with. But be upfront about your "quirks" too.
>>34912675that's not the question the question is: do i LEAVE the discord group i have in common with him (my only way of contacting him as of now) and permanently cut off any possibility of talking to him? or do i wait until his birthday and wish him a happy birthday?!
>>34912679bump help me
>>34912679What kind of restraining order did you get. And did he say he would report it if you contacted him. Because if he didnt then you probably would be fine if you contacted him.
>>34913695i think i'll wait for him to contact me instead, you never know'he never explicitly told me he'd report me but i've left him more clues that will show him i wouldn't do the same to him i'll wait and see, and i feel like he's coming back toward me anyway so there's no point in rushing things
