spent wed & thurs installing HVAC at for a resident at the apartment I work at. conext: I am the supervisor. the only person who outranks me on site is the property manager.have known the resident for about a year. we get along & always chat when I'm there. Wednesday she made lunch (sandwiches) for she and I, not totally uncommon in my line of work. Thursday I finished up & she made two margaritas...That *IS* uncommon, but i accepted, because what is one drink at 16:30? we sat at her kitchen table, talked about my farmlife and her "dumb job" (her words not mine). we finished our drinks and she sort-of stumbled/blurted something along the lines of "If i dont ask, I'll drive myself crazy... can I make you dinner sometime and you watch a movie with me? I know im fat, but you're really nice and I'll make it worth your time." not verbatim, but ballpark.she is a big girl, but she has a waist, chest and hip ratio that falls well within acceptable parameters. If i guessed I would say 165cm, 65kg. not at all "round" beach ball or hamplanet. she actually has really pretty features; eyes, nose, smile, hair & overall proportions. if she lost 10 or 12kg she would be hot. that said, i dont really do big girls. however, im a little worried that she might get offended if i dont accept, and I did in fact drink on the job at her house yesterday. if she wanted to be spiteful she could tell my boss, and I'm pretty sure that's a fireable offense. I essentially gave her the "I'll think about it, I really appreciate the offer but its really hard to get away from the farm" line to buy some time and make an amicable exit. when i saw her in the parking lot today she said something like "how does your schedule look? I bought 'X, Y & Z' at the store last night..." I smiled, said "oh that sounds tasty" or some shit, not realizing that may have sounded like some degree of confirmation. I quickly followed up with some version of "I better get on these work orders, have a good day!"what do?
>>34912313Dont shit where you eat.Actually this gives you an acceptable out. Just tell her you're flattered but since this is your place of work, you wouldnt be comfortable dating a resident. Gets you out of it, gives her an out without embarrassing her.
>>34912360This. If you're nice about it then I doubt she'll do anything. And if she threatens you then having sex with her would definitely make things worse.
got a message from her at the office this afternoon. she said I left a tool at her unit. entirely possible, so went by just before clocking out. she had a pair of coax cutter/crimpers... not mine, not a tool I own or use. told her they weren't mine and thanked her anyway. she asked if i wanted a margarita. I told her i appreciate it, but can't really fraternize with the residents as that could get me in trouble for "favoritism, discrimination, harassment or other liability issues" she said she understood. she said if i change my mind the offer stands. she ended with "you're really nice and fun to talk to. most guys either dont talk or only play video games. I hope I didnt make it weird". I could tell she felt awkward. i mean, i did too, but i felt bad for her.I guess in all honesty, its probably best that she was a fat chick. if she was a 7+ I might not have been as clear headed. in all honesty it was tempting anyway. I'm almost 40 and she could easily be 10 years younger than me. I haven't been that directly hit on in several years. ill take the ego boost and go home.
