Ever since I was little, my biggest dream in life was to one day be a father. I'm a young man now, and so much in just the last few months alone has soured my hopes in making my childhood dream come true. There's no way to really ignore that the misandrist culture I've grown up in wants me to fail. That I could be cheated on or divorced, and everyone would side against me automatically if she said I was at fault with no proof. And the Lindsey Clancy trial proves that even if my wife were to take my children away from me due to her own selfishness, there will be people blaming me, or who'll just say I did it instead. The worst part is that despite all that, society still believes that women are at more risk being around me. It's so insulting, and I have no choice but to be resentful for it all.I don't really have a clear answer. I've taken the best steps I can with improving my life. I'm more social, healthy, and active than ever before. But there's this depressive weight that I can't shrug off. I know it's a feeling a lot of people are grappling with right now. And it makes it feel better, knowing I'm not alone in what I'm struggling with. So I and everyone else can take solace in knowing it's not out fault any of this is happening to us.My worst fear, above all else is that I do meet someone who says all the right things. Who comforts me, knows what I need, and who tells me she has the same wants and morals as I do. Only to take everything from me because I was stupid enough to let her in.Maybe it's for the best, since I am still young and will meet many people in the future who could be good to me. That I should wait and really protect what I have to the absolute best of my abilities before I ever risk anything like that. Not just for me anymore, but to my children who she could one day simply decide don't belong to me.Rest in peace to Cora Clancy, aged 5. Dawson Clancy, aged 3. Callan Clancy, aged 8 months.
you're a faggot who lets news headlines and social media outbursts dictate their life directionkill yourself and save the gene pool from your gayness
>>34912940That's kind of the exact, diametric opposite of my mentality. And I did a fair job expressing my resolve in not allowing depressing world affairs to hinder my life goals.But sure, thank you.
>>34912926Most of what you say is bullshit, and even if it were true, it would have nothing to do with becoming a father.
>>34912971Divorce lawyers literally refer to their work as "the divorce industry". And don't be disingenuous as if we don't all know who gets the pick of assets and custody between the man and the woman. A lot of that data is purposefully withheld from the public, but it's a fact that women initiate divorce substantially more than men. And it's certainly not to escape "abusive" husbands.
>>34912994It's not the fucking 1980s. There is essentially no such thing as alimony any more. Obviously assets that you own jointly are divided up, but besides that the only thing you pay after divorce is child support. If the prospect of being financially responsible for supporting your own children frightens you then yes, you shouldn't become a father. Otherwise, grow up and stop whining.
>>34912994>it's a fact that women initiate divorce substantially more than menNTA, but that's because it's men who do the things that make staying married to them intolerable. Husbands, for example, beat up wives far more often than wives beat up husbands, and the battered wives then binitiate divorce. This is not the slam dunk you seem to think it is.
>>34912926I'm not reading all that. Just going to I've you a reality check:Lindsay Clancy is a lying psychopathic, a child murderer who wasn't even diagnosed with Post Partum Psychosis. Post Partum Psychosis is exceptionally rare, affecting only 1 in 1000 women. That's 0.1% odds. Of those women, only 1 ~ 4% of them commit infanticide. Which means you're looking at a 0.0001% chance this shit will ever happen to you. 1 in ten thousand chance.
>>34913016Nta, but if you count for initiated aggression, (slapping, spitting, throwing objects) women initiate fights and physical escalations more than men statistically. You can look that up.
>>34912926I feel for you and I'm so thankful I never want kids. This world is built to make having kids as fucked up as possible..
>>34912926>>34913457>ContinuedDo not let this Clancy shit demoralise you. Don't let the massive swell of retarded holes who supported her bother you. If your big worry is you fear marrying a cunt who will ruin you or your future kids' lives, then you should be glad the BPD-coded, fatherless, useless sacks of hormonal waste have revealed themselves and masked off publicly. Because it shows you which women you need to avoid. This is a massive learning opportunity where you can identify patterns and red flags from these women without getting burned. Pay close attention to them, when you see them on social media sounding off, study their profiles, their socials, see which type of girl they are, the way they dress the beliefs they hold the shit they say. Lock down a mental pattern of these girls.Then when you see any girl resembling that when you start dating avoid them like the plague. This will naturally steer your mind to look for girls who are the opposite in demeanour and presentation. Leading you right to a woman who won't fuck your life up.
