I've fallen in love with my friend with benefits. We have sex every day and say romantic stuff to each other all the time, but I'm so scared that he will turn me down if I ask him to be my boyfriend. He's been very promiscuous since a young age and I really doubt he loves me the way I love him. I'm sure that even if he doesn't return my feelings he will continue to have this kind of relationship with me, but yeah... I feel trapped. I love him. I'm addicted to him. I'm obsessed with him.
Baby trap him or something
>I feel trapped. I love him. I'm addicted to him. I'm obsessed with him.Yeah that's not terrifying at all or anything.Just ask him because if you don't you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. And you're a woman, if he rejects you you can download Tinder and find 200 new fwb's in 30 minutes.If he rejects you you can also tell him that you just wanna keep fucking and being fwb and that you don't mind to stay fwb even if its a lie. That way you can at least keep having sex with him
>>34913235That is a terrible idea.
>>34913237How is it terrifying to fall in love with someone I've been having sex with almost daily for three months?
>>34913237At that point, you leave the guy. Unless he wants to change his life, there is no sense in trying or wasting your time. Honestly, go find someone who will love you and wants to be "that person" for you. Why would give all your love to someone who doesn't want it especially when you know there is someone out there who will?
>>34913251It's the way you phrased it but mostly the fact that you used an anime picture. Yeah idk bro just dont ruin the guy's life when he rejects you
>>34913262I won't hurt him or stalk him. Worst case scenario I lie in bed and cry for a month.
>>34913272But to be honest >>34913257 is correct.You already said yourself that he's very promiscuous and you doubt he loves you. He's probably a chad fucking 10 different girls in a week. You can certainly try but expect the worst is what I would say,
>>34913287Yeah he's been dating and having sex constantly since he was 13 and describes himself as a commitmentphobe that always leaves when things get serious.
>>34913298Then stop fucking him so you can forget about him sooner. If you genuinely want to find a long-term partner then your time is valuable. Don't waste it on someone who doesn't want the same thing as you
>>34913309I don't know if he does or not. Maybe he does. A lot of girls have really fallen for him because he says a lot of romantic stuff but he doesn't actually mean it. He says that acting like you're in love just makes the sex better. I don't think he means to lead people on he's just passionate and irresponsible.
>>34913324You've just given even more reasons as to why he probably doesn't love you. So just tell him you love him for the small chance that he does. And also just because if you don't tell him you will regret it for a very long time. Rejection is far better than regret. And like I said if you reject him you have thousands of other options available to you in an instant. Plus it's probably actually for the best he rejects you considering the life-style this dude is having
>>34913347I'll tell him tonight.
>>34913225I find it laughable that people today are willing to sacrifice any semblance of responsibility and duty in a serious romantic relationship in exchange for sporadic, superficial flings that inevitably end up in situations like this. Relationships today are falling apart and being destroyed by women’s promiscuous, libertine, and unbridled nature, just as men give in to vice and women’s superficial charms. It’s a never-ending cycle.
>>34913358good luck anon
>>34913251>How is it terrifying to fall in love with someone I've been having sex with almost daily for three months?Falling in love isn't terrifying. But this: >>34913225>I feel trapped. I love him. I'm addicted to him. I'm obsessed with him.that definitely is. Love is fine. Obsession is frightening.
>>34913225Your options are 1) tell him how you feel, or 2) don't tell him how you feel. If you go for option 1, the chances of him becoming your boyfriend are quite low, but if you go for option 2, the chances are zero. So you may as well tell him.
>>34913395Love often is obsessive, especially early on.
I know this is a LARP because there are no girls on 4chan but I hope it's not because I'd love to see another dumb slut get pumped and dumped after chasing Chad. Like, it's the big 26, there's no excuse for not knowing you're just succumbing to hypergamy. You chose this and deserve every bit of pain you get :^)>>34913391Women deserve most of the blame but let's not absolve men of their responsibilities here either. Beta males enabled women and lotharios and fuckboys take advantage without caring about the consequences. We need to bully beta males and punish lotharios same as we did back in the old days.
>>34913225The fun of obsession is that you don't have the object and u can fully enjoy the object of fantasy obsession to me is a sign u shouldn't change anything u are enjoying it too much right now why collapse enjoyment ?
