I've been to bars and going alone borders on psychological self-harm. I've always felt so bad after spending money on overpriced beverages just to feel like an forsaken outcast at those places. I did find some guys to go with and sometimes they'll bring women and then I finally felt like I belonged and we'd even occasionally talk to other people (which ultimately never led to any connections anyway) but generally there wasn't a lot mixing. Women especially always arrive in groups and never seem to leave the flesh cubes they form.
People don’t go to bars to meet people anymore. If you want to meet chicks pick up a female friendly hobby like tennis. You’ll fuck so many chicks playing tennis. Married women, young women, anything you want. Find a club to join or you can even just go to the park a few hours a week and hit balls against a wall, some parks have half courts for that. Doesn’t have to be tennis just find a way to engage with women in an environment where you’re colleagues from the start and go from there. Hobbies are a good starting point because it also gives you a built in similar interest.
>>34914402Drinking booze is self harm anyway. If it's the cost though getting to you pre game and bring a flask for swigs in the toilet. I used to be a real degen alcoholic and went home with women dozens of times on nights like that.
