Im 20f and ive never experienced anything romantic at all(no kiss, no holding hands, not even getting catcalled or smt). I feel like im really missing out because most of the ppl im surrounded with already have some sort of experience. I dont think im that ugly or fat, just average I would say(5'1/119lb). How do I approach guys in a "safe" way? Because im scared ill get made fun of by him or his friends.
>>34915689Do something other than rotting in your bed all day and you will probably get what you want
>>34915689>How do I approach guys in a "safe" way?Define "safe".
>>34915695I go to college 5 days a week and work a parttime job on the weekends. Im just really socially awkward and dk how to talk to ppl
>>34915737In a way that I cant get made fun of. Like so its not that obvious im desperate for a relationship
hahah a 20 year old female 5'1 119lbs asking how to get a bf?extremely weak bait like genuinely are you people even trying?
>>34915755That's impossible, I'm afraid. Sooner or later you're going to have to make it clear that you're interested. There's no way round it.Do you have many friends? Or indeed any? If not, you might want to start with that. Relationships are *way* more difficult and complicated than friendships. Once you've mastered being friends with someone and enjoying spending time with other people in a lower-pressure situation, think about dating then.
>>34915771You are literally the most retarded person I have ever met on the internet, bar none. You are falling for the most obvious bait possible.A 20 year old female could install tinder, bumble and hinge and get over 1000 requests in 24 hours without exaggeration. If a 20 year old female feels alone or needs help finding a guy to talk to she is either a) literally deformed or b) literally clinically braindead.You are embarrassing and shouldn't be on this board giving people advice if you can't catch super obvious bait
real?
>>34915787This is quite likely bait, yes; virtually every thread on /adv/ is. But I have met (irl) genuine femcels in the past. They exist. An inability to get a girlfriend or boyfriend is generally the result of autism or mental illness, and men don't have a monopoly on those things.
>>34915754So, why haven't you been approached? Most men are willing to be in relationships with any woman. I find it hard to believe that no man has ever initiated anything with you. What's your problem?
>>34915819I'm sorry but you're genuinely delusional. She's a 20 year old female 5'1 119lbs. She describes herself as average.And having autism and mental illness makes her even more hot for some guys. You just underestimate how much attention females get. I've seen genuinely fat and ugly girls get hundreds of messages in like 2 days.Femcels don't exist because they are just lapring as an incel either because they like the attention or just want to make fun of incels. It literally does not exist. You cannot download a dating app and get no matches for 24 hours. It's not possible. Even with severe mental illness like BPD or schizo it's still easy to get a boyfriend as an average 20 year old. btw she isn't even average she's 5'1 which makes her above average since shorter girls are considered hotter by most men.So either this is bait or larp and no youve never met a "real" femcel (because they dont exist)
>>34915845>Femcels don't existI've met some. I don't know what else to tell you.
>>34915853Yeah they could just be lying? I don't know what to tell you man if they downloaded tinder they would get hundreds of matches in 24 hours. They might think they are femcels because no 6'4 chads with sixpacks and huge biceps hit them up but that's not actually what it means.
>>34915857>Yeah they could just be lying?No. I have eyes in my head.
>>34915857Take your cuck fantasies to somewhere else
>>34915866shut up retard im trying to explain something to another anon and you're just coming here projecting
>>34915857>I don't know what to tell you man if they downloaded tinder they would get hundreds of matches in 24 hours.Sure. But every single one of those would be interested only in a casual fuck, and that's not what OP is after. She wants a boyfriend.
>>34915863yeah im sure you saw their tinder accounts right? no reason to whiteknight women so hard on a site where they dont even come. retard
>>34915873>yeah im sure you saw their tinder accounts right?Literally everyone on Tinder is after casual sex.
>>34915869>But every single one of those would be interested only in a casual fuckI don't think you understand what the definition of femcel is. But even if we change the definition to include romantic partners there's still going to be some with genuine intentions. Women are just genuinely fucking retarded when it comes to not choosing the domestic abuser lol. But sure tinder is a place where most guys will be wanting to fuck. But even so an average woman could ask out any guy in their college, work, etc and 90% of the time they wouldn't get rejected
>>34915873And it's not a question of white knighting, I'm simply trying to explain to you why you are mistaken. Something that you believe is true is actually empirically false. It's true that almost any woman could get a casual fuck from a man who doesn't like her and simply wants to use her as a convenient wet hole; but understandably, many women don't want that. And there are plenty of women in the world for whom getting a *boyfriend* - as in, a boyfriend who actually likes her - is difficult or impossible.
>>34915878>But even so an average woman could ask out any guy in their college, work, etc and 90% of the time they wouldn't get rejectedAn *average* woman, yes. Femcels are not average women.
>>34915893Yeah only for the fat ones
>>34915898but regardless femcel means a woman who is involuntarily celibate so im not sure why im even defending this postion
>>34915689this isnt bait im being fr? I dont know why im not being approached thats why im asking how I should do it. I have used duolicious for a while and guys did message me but I just cant keep a online conversation going. Maybe im just way uglier irl or smt?? I just want to know how I can approach a guy and let them subtly know im interested
>>34915998another baitclown
>>34915689Ain't no women on this site.
>>34915689No man will ever love you fucking ugly bitch, kys immediately
Either you are lying about something or you are one of the few women who are genuinely too ugly or retarded to date.