>Have ample evidence wife has been snooping around on my phone >She keeps hinting that she found out I spent a bunch of money on a gun behind her back>neither of us will admit we know because that means we also have to admit that we are each guilty of something >awkward stalemateWhat do? I’m about to just call her out for spying on me and also apologize for not telling her before making such a large purchase. I figure that way it will finally clear the air and at least give me the position of being the one who came forward first. Also the whole spying thing is way worse. Could backfire horribly if I’m somehow wrong about all of this.
>>34930124>Also the whole spying thing is way worse.No, it isn't. It would have been worse if you hadn't had anything to hide. As it is, it was necessary.
>>34930217Okay but I say the opposite and that if wife could be normal then OP wouldn’t have to hide his purchases
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>>34930217>ends justify the means type niggaYea you’re a nutjob. Good look ever having a relationship if you trust no one. What I did was a minor mistake. It doesn’t justify spying which I’m pretty sure she’s doing because she has this stupid belief that I’m cheating on her despite having zero evidence. Women are a pain at times.
>>34930231Legit think that what I’m gonna do. She’s even recently mentioned that she needs to learn to stay out of peoples business
>>34930220>>34930248The problem here is clearly that OP has clearly spent far more money on this than either of them can afford him to.
>>34930248You lied by omission.She spied.Now you're focused on being 'wrong' about things like a binary right and wrong is anything to be even slightly concerned with in adulthood.You guys sound perfect for each other.
