-I know this is repulsive and narcissistic but I have no one to talk to about it im sorry.BEFORE ANYONE MENTIONS ANYTHING TO DO WITH PERSONALITY BEING BAD no, im a social wizard when I try, I dont even get a chance to speak to women currently so my personality is mute.I really have no clue what I should be doing to work towards what I want but every day I feel usless that im not working towards that goal.All my x gfs have been pretty good looking and I know I should be grateful I even dated anyone but im use to that lifestyle and my entire family is very cruel to me, so I require some from of external affection or else I start to fail in every aspect in my life, my drinking has increased really badly, im chain smoking and I cant stop thinking about my own death, its becoming a real problem (Only towards myself Im harmless)But im really struggling at the moment, Can you guys please throw me some advice on how to use dating apps and what I -NEED TO CHANGE ABOUT HOW I LOOK- I must change something but I cant find any real advice anywhere.Im tallI can be ripped and easily go to the gym, im not at the moment because im miserableIll have really good money my entire life ect ect, again I cant atm because im to distressedIm a social doormat that knows how to deal with women and make them feel loved ectOr if im truly to mid teir for dating apps let me know, I have used in the past and found 4 gfs from them but I do think im just to old and ugly for it now. It wont be mean if you say this and I will stop using them and try my luck outsideTLDR: Where can I go on the internet to have people truly tell me exactly what to fix? I need a clavicular
>>34934449Im tallI can be ripped and easily go to the gym, im not at the moment because im miserableIll have really good money my entire life ect ect, again I cant atm because im to distressedIm a social doormat that knows how to deal with women and make them feel loved ectAll of this can be changed almost overnight, I use old pics of when I was ripped anyway, and its not catfishing I can become like the photos VERY quickly, so its an extra kick in the face because I dont look as good as my photos that STILL dont get attention.
>>34934449>im a social wizard when I tryYeah right bro. Thats why you are haning out on apps, gymcelling and making this mentally ill thread over and over again while telling everyone how successful you are with women anyways. Seek professional help.
>>34934574Because I have crippling anxiety to where I wana kill self?I bite my toung when i WALK in public, I also do public speaking and im ultra friendly I conquered that part of myself long ago I die inside but i force myself and its normal now, I spectate myself in social situations.BUT THERES SOMETHING HORRENDOUSLY wrong with how I look when I start talking to a chick its fken easiest thing in the world but I cant get my foot in the door for what reason?TO UGLY.Im here to find out if its permanent or if theres something I can do, Or if theres somewhere else I can ask.Dont send me back to my X who hits me please I beg. I really am high risk of self deletion (dont let me saying this influence responses, im also highly logical) Im just trying to better myself and im confused as to why im so unliked.Its very hard to see fat women and single mums with heaps of kids (again no hate) still shit on me. I dated a single mum ages ago and I only stopped seeing her cas she was mean to her kid in favor of fucking me and I found it repulsive, and fat chicks are a good lay but so incompatable with my lifestyle so no hate on either of those groups, but I really hate being so below themExtra pics
You look a bit tired/stressed in the pic. Maybe relaxing/getting more sleep will help.
>>34934660I dont use that pic, it was ment to be candid Oc im stressed I wana end life dur.And btw this is not a oh boo hoo i wana kill myself, no this is I will kill myself but Im here asking to try to find ways to NOT do that.its a mix of empathy to, I dont think I look that awful and therefore anyone below me must be having it way harder but even this is enough to break me cas im weak so I worry about everyone else below me.
>>34934682Well yeah the last thing woman want is a weak manHonestly if you went up to a woman while thinking, "I am better than this woman, she is below me, she's just dumb" you would be more successful than going up while super anxious
>>34934660This photo is current, I look even more ripped when I go to the gym and this is me now kinda the type of pics I use.If anyone trys to yap about bro u look fine NO not true I have tested DATA and its not true so where does one go to looxmax?I have endless money to spend on it but I dont know whats wrong with me I really need genuine help
>>34934684I DONT SPEAK TO THEM I KNOW HOW TO SUBDUE EVERYTHING AND PUT ON A MASK.Im so sick of these responces. IM TO UGLY TO MATCH CURRENTLY THATS THE ISSUE THEY CANT TELL IM CRIPPLINGLY DEPRESSED OR WANA DIE NO ONE CAN zzzzz
>>34934688I would rate you a high tier normie personally. You pass in terms of looks, your vibe is probably killing your chances with girls>>34934689Well your approach depends a lot. You look good, but not good enough to cold approach girls and ask for their number (You need to be 9/10+ for that).
>>34934690Once again VIBE what vibe!!?!?!? my vibe is what wins me girls and has always been what wins me girls I need to FIX MY FACE AND BODYIm the type to get a girl who does not fine me that hot to like me, but im finding now that im an old fuck I cant get the foot in the door to EVEN speak to them so I lose all my rizz potential as the kids say. Im sperging out here cas im venting and wana die lol
>>34934691Vibe is just the attitude you have around the hoes. It is not more important than looks but you can get +2 or -2 points depending on how you come off. If you're anxious and fidgety it's GG
>>34934690Ok well I have the confidence to cold approach, most of the time to stay sharp I told women id usually approach if i were not dateing that they were so hot and i was so nervous I couldn't work up the courage, the loved it and usually made there day.I have not done it recently cas im to flat and I feel like my body is wasteing away so my confidences aint high enough and would feel like im offending them for speaking to them lol.So how if I can... can i fix what I look like further to make it easier? We all only need 1 gf and we set, Im just a loser who needs it real fast else bad things happen.I have only been single for 2 weeks btw, no flex but I need this fixed NOW
>>34934696If its that urgent just look into some easy quick looksmaxxes like makeup, layered hair cut, get better clothes etc. go buy some trendy fashion like chromehearts repro or something idk
>>34934699U know id usually pawn this of as trash advice but I really appreciate u trying to help me and replying, ill take a look at all of this properly and see if anything works.Thankyou brother.
>>34934691>Once again VIBE what vibe!!?!?!?>I KNOW HOW TO SUBDUE EVERYTHING AND PUT ON A MASK.>I have crippling anxiety to where I wana kill self?OInce agains its piss easy to tell from your posts that you are mentally ill. Seek help. Apps are also known for making shit like this worse, way worse, because part of their business model is to make you feel unattractive so you pay for highwer tiers and keep swiping to finally get the sweet dopamine hit from a match.>>34934699Not only would that make OP like aa zesty fruit , it also won't do shit for his issues and likely just make them worse.
>>34934718Oh mentally ill boo hoo blaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa bla bla bla bla blaNIGGA (half black I can say NIGGER NIGGER NIGGER as much as i like) I spent my entire life being afraid and bla bla and I masked it only for the mask to be useless thats my issue!And no apps aint the issue its my a visability on the apps thats a cope if u think not ie i gotta fix looks get with it.I give up tho 4chan aint what it use to be i use to ask /b/ for this and they were helpful now its full of degeneracy
>>34934688You are mid, too lean though. For that age you need a bit of fat.
>>34934745niggre your literally full on schizoposting at this point. Get a grip
you're brown, that's it
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>>34935029Yeah im OP and on reading that sounds real schizo, but I was down a whole bottle of vodka so yeah.I come to terms with I just gotta give up like many other men gotta come to grips with its just difficult cas it makes everything else I usually enjoy worthless.Heps of lads are in the same position as me so I just gotta shut the fk up and cope.
>>34934688You have a lot of potential but like the other anon said, i think bulking up would do a ton of good. Lean doesn't suit you.Your hairstyle makes you look like you suck dick at glory holes, change that too.
>>34936366Thanks for replying stranger means alot.
>>34934449If that's you you look decent enough (if depressed). Your problem (as is the case in 99% of these threads) is not your looks, rather it is your insecurities and rampaging mental illness.>im a social wizard when I tryKek, yeah right. Well if that's the case, why don't you just "try" all the time then?>I dont even get a chance to speak to women currentlyWhy not? Are you waiting for permission or something?
>>34936851This is related to dateing apps, i want my next gf to find me attractive, and if i cant get the worst of the worst on the apps what does that say about me?Its chill tho i been sooking like a bitch but after crying heaps u kinda solidify and stablise, this thread ia dead and cringe and i made it while wasted anyway.I accept just nut up and get over it cas i asked plenty of people and they say ur fine because most people are gold deep down ect so its imposible to extract info like what im asking.I just nut up and eat shit and drink and smoke myself to death like heaps of us have to
>>34936966>This is related to dateing appsTo be clear you look "good" but not "dating app good".> i want my next gf to find me attractiveThen stay in your lane and date a similarly mid girl.>what does that say about me?Your biggest problem that this whole post says about you is that you talk like a fucking retard. Like this:>Its chill tho i been sooking like a bitch but after crying heaps u kinda solidify and stablise, this thread ia dead and cringeNigger what the fuck does this even mean?
>>34934449just growing your hair longer would help you a lot imo
>>34937033>Nigger what the fuck does this even mean?Ill translate for you: its ok, i have been crying enough to become numb and stabalise. This thread is dead and im cringe anywayTy for bothering to reply, however every time to get answers every for solely looks based replys its always "you speak like and idiot or its your personality im so sick of it. IF THERES NO ONE TO TALK TO THEN OT CANT BE HOW I SPEAK.And my standerds are on the floor, nothing
