Hi! Its my first time posting on 4chan so idrk how this works. Also purely posting this to get insight and advice :)I am a attractive kissless virgin female. I have never been in a real relationship. I have never rly had a guy walk up to me and talk to me or ask for my info or anything like that. But literally everywhere i go without fail people stare at me (mainly men obvi). I am 5'8, 130 with a muscular/toned physique. I have semi long brunette hair, slightly tanned, have blue eyes, self proclaimed good style and have manyyyy hobbies (gym, surf, reading abt history, sewing, cars, hiking, etc). I have recently posted myself on one of those "rate me" subreddits and my post got a lot of traction with many people rating me a 8/9 out of 10.I dont really know what to do. I dont rly want to use dating apps out of my intense fear that someone ik will see my account.Someone on a subreddit said that when men see an attractive girl they will automatically assume that she is taken? Ive been told by some friends that they say i look somewhat intimidating and that i usually look mad lol and that might scare off men. Another thing thats worth mentioning is that i never make eye contact with literally anyone so i always know ppl are staring at me cuz they will literally turn their heads but i will continue looking straight ahead. The only time ive ever looked back at a dude he literally did a 180 and came up to me (first & only time that happened).Another thing worth mentioning is that I'm also reluctant to approach guys my league bc most of them have alr had their firsts and I don't want to be the inexperienced girl with the experienced guy which I feel is valid :/. and I also don't want to date below my league bc I preferably date to marry and I don't want to be with someone I settled for, for the rest of my life. idk advice/insight is GREATLY appreciated :))))
I know I have no life, but at least I'm not larping as cute girls on the internet.The psychology behind it is weird, it's written to be immediately recognizable as satire, so you know nobody is going to believe you. Is it the pretending that does it for you?
boi I am not larping lolllll. I posted this on Reddit and now here bc ik the main demographic of these two sites are somewhat young males which is what I'm obviously who I'm asking advice from.
>>34945770I don't understand what you need advice with?
>>34945820actually more so insight. I want to know what ppl think of my situation. and I guess some advice on what to do or how to get better at approaching guys.
>>34945770>Hi! Its my first time posting on 4chanlisten here babygirl, you;re gonna get a lot of hurtful comments, you don't know what this place is like, just know you're perfect the way you are and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Say hi and something nice about him that's all
>>34945843Insight: even guys are too pussy to approach these days, so a girl obviously will never approach anyone.
>>34945770oh wait you actually used a fucking name, maybe you are legit? either way, this place is a hellhole, what are you doing here? do you think you will find a good man here? there are actually few good men and few good women anywhere. why are you afraid someone you know will see your dating profile? that's a red flag. you are almost 100% certainly an indian scammer. this is literally an awful hell hole.
>>34945864how and why would it be a red flag? alot of ppl are afraid of vulnerability and I think its very vulnerable to put yourself out like that hence my valid fear. And no I'm very much exactly who I describe myself as :) I simply just want to know what ppl think
>>34945862thank you for your very helpful insight lol. if I were to approach a guy (which I've been gaining the courage to thx to the help of the kind ppl of the internet) how likely do you think I would succeed?
>>34945874>how likely do you think I would succeed?Very. Basically if you get rejected by one, the second or 3rd will be a success for sure. From the female perspective there need to be different considerations, such as quality of the mate.
