I thought I'd remain a perma virgin throughout my college life and maybe score in my 30s, I never thought I'd make it this far, how do I turn this into finally doing the deed?
>>34946784By tempering your excitement and acting as though it's something normal that happens everyday.
>>34946791horrible advice dont listen to this nigga>>34946784just beeee yourself, you did SOMETHING right if she just gave it to you without asking
Don't try to "do the deed". Just enjoy a feminine being showing affection to you. Reach a mindset, where you appreciate every positive interaction without expecting more.
>>34946784If she saw this thread she'd regret giving you her number instantly, do with that what you will.
>>34946803Agree with this anon, just bee yourself and be kind and thoughtful towards her
>>34946784Jump of a building
>>34948657quit being a hater bro
>>34946784Burn it. No, seriously. Burn it.If you got one you can get another.They've had the power all your life, while you've had a scarcity mentality.Burn it, and the power is now yours.
>>34948657Saar
>>34946784No man ever has sex for the first time over the age of 30. If you haven't had it by then, you never will.
>>34946784>how do I turn this into finally doing the deed?You're trying to jump several important steps, here. A woman giving you her number means she *might* be interested; but it's more likely she'll turn out not to be. So don't get carried away. The first thing to do is call her. (DON'T TEXT. Call. Cowards text.) Call, remind her who you are, and ask if she'd like to go for a drink. If she's still interested, she'll ask when and where; make sure you have some good suggestions ready. Then actually meet her, chat a bit, see if she's the kind of person you enjoy spending time with, and give her a chance to decide if you're the kind of person she enjoys spending time with. If everything goes well, set up another date.
>>34949097Little update, I managed to grow some balls and texted her (before reading your post sorry anon), anyways shenanigans happened and SHE invited ME
>>34949726Ah, well, some definite interest there.For your date, remember that the purpose of dating is NOT to change yourself into someone that the other person likes. There are three basic goals to dating: 1) Give the other person a chance to decide if they like you the way you already are. 2) Decide if you like them. 3) Enjoy yourself. The third one matters. Dating isn't some weird, arcane ritual you go through to obtain sex, it is hanging out with a person you like because hanging out with them is FUN.So, by all means make a little bit of an effort. Make sure you've showered, and you're wearing clean clothes, and your hair is combed, and you're either well shaved or your facial hair has been trimmed, you've brushed your teeth, and you don't have dirt under your fingernails, etc. But fundamentally you should be having fun. If you don't have a good time, that's probably a good sign that the two of you don't belong together.Having said all that, it's usually a good idea to keep things fairly light on a first date. Don't talk about things that people tend to get intense or upset about (like politics, for example). You want her to go home thinking "Oh, that was fun!"Also remember that women are actually human beings, like you, and that she will be just as nervous as you are, and wanting you to like her in precisely the same way that you want her to like you. Remembering that will probably make you less nervous!
>>34949090>No man ever has sex for the first time over the age of 30. If you haven't had it by then, you never willNTA. I was 35. Wasn't with a whore either.
>>34951172GAH DAMN UNC
>>34952818Yup. Funny thing is, zoomers will be the same age in 4-5 years.
>>34946784Settle down and don't be a degenerate.
>>34946784Mostly this>>34946891With an added note:Remember that not expecting, doesn't mean shutting your eyes to signals. If the moment feels right to do something like hug, hold hand, kiss, say something romantic, invite her over, then do it. It's not really about not expecting, it's more about acting when the signals come from her rather than initiating because you think "you have to or you'll lose her"
This happened to me but it didn't go anywhere. Just saying.
>>34949090i got laid for the first time like 3 months before my 30th bday so i guess i just made it
be honest about your lack of experience and don't play a 'character'. have faith in yourself and your appearance- you should try and look good and project your best self, but if she wasn't interested in you as you already are, you wouldnt have her number.probably be cognizant of your biases towards women that makes you call them 'foids' and try and unlearn them so you aren't super weird towards her- remember that she's a person, not a 'girl' and that you are not smarter than her. she will know if you bullshit and lie.
>>34955530>be honest about your lack of experiencethis desui wasnt at first but when I did tell my girl she was my first she was like really flattered and turned on by the thought that nobody has ever touched me the way she has. I guess dudes and girls are pretty similar in that regard. I kinda always assumed most women what dudes with big body counts.
maybe start by actually forming a relationship with her instead of instantly thinking about having sex with her? also if she knew u thought about her like this and called women „foids” she’d regret giving u her number. weirdo
>>34946784In Japan if you ask for a girls phone number she will usually give it to you happily, then ghost and block you.Its just done to avoid confrontation. I don't know what circumstances led this girl to giving you her phone number, but it doesn't always or mostly mean they are interested in you.
