My vagina is big enough to fit one (1) finger, like literally a finger. My hands are small, so depending on the hand, it might not even fit that. When I was a child, I had a condition where my labia were kind of stuck together because I washed my private parts with soap and my skin was very sensitive (even today, if I use detergent without gloves, I get irritations). So, as I grew up and with creams, it started to open up again, but the opening is still very small. I literally don't have labia minora; they've kind of fused with my skin and It's really uncanny. I'm not a faggot obsessed with morality, but at 21 years old, I've never had sex due to a lack of interest. Regarding masturbation, I don't usually insert anything there. Sometimes I rub it against a pillow, but most of the time I just watch something and climax without even touching myself because when I was a pre-teen it still hurt if I tried to insert something there, and that kind of stuck in my head. Anyway, it was never something that worried me until I started liking a guy. It kind of messed up because I don't know how this is going to work. He lives in another state and is coming to see me, and I love him, but seriously, just looking at the pictures, I know his penis won't fit. The last time I went to a gynecologist, she gave me a cream with corticosteroids and estrogen to see if it would open my vagina more, but I used it for 6 months and nothing changed. She said that if it didn't work, I would probably have to have surgery, but she also said that it could open more naturally depending on the situation. I hadn't paid much attention to that, but now I know what kind of situation she was talking about. So, is that it? Should I just let my boyfriend open me up like an potato chips bag? I don't want my first time to hurt like hell. Should I wait and get surgery? I don't have the money for that, I'm kind of screwed.
>Should I just let my boyfriend open me up like an potato chips bag?do you want to die of a preventable infectionthis is how you die of a preventable infection
>>34951488I've thought about this, I'm hesitant to be honest with him about it because I think about it: If he told me today that he has phimosis and that sex is painful for him, I would accept it but I would be disappointed. I really don't want to disappoint him with the truth, but there's no way I can have surgery in 3 months. For the first time, I like a guy and this happens. Great.
do not force it openif you are going to continue to try sexually then lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, and patienceyou may be able to do it yourself with a dildo. my ex got it done at a doctor's. it wasn't even for that procedure, they were doing something else and broke her hymen
>>34951494>I really don't want to disappoint him with the truth,lady, the truth is the only thing that matters in sexhe's coming to see you, he's coming to get some, he's going to see what he has to work with whether you've handled it yourself or notopenness, communication, 100% of the time all the time
>>34951478my white penis could fit
>>34951494>I really don't want to disappoint him with the truthKinda sounds like your only alternative is to hurt him with a lie if you don't want to be honest.
find a guy with a micropenis for now
>>34951498I don't think lubricant will fix this, it's not a muscle problem like vaginismus, my skin is closed at the entrance, but before saying anything about it, I think I'll at least try to do something about it. I've almost never touched there, so I'll really have to embark on a journey of self-discovery, I guess.>34951501I decided that I'll at least try to relax the entrance a little with my fingers and lube, so he can't say I didn't try. Anyway, I'll talk to him about it before he comes here if I can't do anything about it. >>34951506I want his white penis only, sorry.>>34951509I really want that penis, the whole thing attached around it is unfortunately my greatest love, which get things complicated.
>>34951478Micropenis guys score! Or /ss/ time.
>>34951478>Should I just let my boyfriend open me up like an potato chips bag?Jesus Christ, no!If it were me, I wouldn't be particularly bothered by not being able to have penetrative sex with you, so long as you were both skilled and extremely enthusiastic about hands and mouths. (In both directions, obviously - I'd need to be able to give you pleasure too). Does your clitoris work, or is that messed up too?If surgery will actually fix the problem then you should definitely consider it; but be careful to ask the right questions, in particular "Is there any risk at all you might cut through a nerve and cause me to lose sensation in my clitoris?"
>>34951478Are you sure you're not just talking abhout an intact hymen? A normal hymen has a finger-size hole (for the release of period blood) but can be stretched or torn naturally with first insertion of something larger
>>34951522You can cum from rubbing the outside area of the pussy
Men don't have vaginas. That's just a wound you paid for and refuse to let heal.
I happen to have a one finger sized penis, OP.
>>34951478Hey since you are already taken you are useless to anyone on here unless you are willing to break up or cheat. So how about you tell us where you met this guy so the rest of us can find painfully small vagina freaks too?
He has to shove his cock inside you. Are you a virgin?
I don't have a pussy so I can't weigh in much on that but I've heard of vaginismus, maybe you can talk to a gyno or groups online about what helped them.As for your boyfriend, you probably should tell him ahead of time that vaginal sex is not going to happen right away. There are still plenty of ways to have fun, with your hands, mouth, butt, heck maybe you can do it between your thighs. A GOOD boyfriend will be patient and understanding about this.
Have you heard of silicone dilators? They start as small as a pinky finger and go up to a large sized penis. Might be worth checking out
>>34951478So, let me see if I understand correctly. Your actual vagina is fine, but your outer labia have become partially fused together, making the vaginal entrance too small? If that's correct, it sounds like it would be very easy and quick to fix surgically; might not even need a general anaesthetic. So it might not be horrifically expensive.
Haha get fucked foid whore. Shortcel victory
>>34951522>my skin is closed at the entranceThat's perfectly normal though. It's called a "hymen".>>34951478>Should I just let my boyfriend open me up like an potato chips bag?Yeah, pretty much. If he opens up his potato chip bags by poking at them with his penis.
>>34951478I wish I had your problem... my cunt is like the grand canyon. I can comfortably get my whole fist up there and then some
Uh guys, I think this is my hymen? I'm a little confused about this, because I definitely have a skin problem, I frequently have dermatitis and I've had problems with this on my vagina as mentioned before, so I assumed it was that, but I recently discovered that the hymen isn't a layer of skin that covers the entire vagina, so could I still have one? Since I had already put a finger there, I imagined it had broken or something, but now I'm wondering if it's really my hymen? But it wouldn't make sense for the gynecologist to have asked me to use the creams, could she have been referring only to the fact that I don't have labia minora? She said that they could detach from the skin with the use of the ointment, from what I understood, but that didn't happen anyway. I made an appointment with a gynecologist to see what I can do.I shouldn't have slept through all my ED classes.
>>34951478Honey, sex is a mutual thing. If he loves you, he will understand your issue. Most boys are horny enough to try other things. You really need to talk to the doc and if surgury sounds better than save up for it. Its better to do things slow, steady, and healthy than speed up and potentially get sick.
>>34952617 If your intention is to see a girl feel pain during sex, I suggest you go to a BDSM community or something. Most vaginas are the same size regardless of location or race, but if your intention is to find a virgin girl, you can start by not acting/thinking like this retard: >>34952381>>34953417It's not worth feeling pain for someone else's pleasure unless it's your fetish.>>34951637Really, until we get an answer about this, we'll have to have fun in other ways. I don't want to risk hurting myself and getting an infection or something.
I mixed up the first two tag numbers in the last post, but you guys understood.
>>34954028You're absolutely right, I came to the same conclusion. I haven't spoken to him yet because I'm a little unsure about what it's really about, but I'll talk to him when the trip date gets closer; there are still many months to go.
>>34954050well just remember to take care of yourself also. You gals tend to devot yourself a lot to your partners. If he loves even just for the booty, he will understand. a few months a few years. Love is like a flower that needs time to grow. Plus it gives you time to may be experiment a bit more in the love making department. Dudes always forget the foreplay and the importance of it.
Sounds OP is going to be sucking some dick
Okay, that was definitely my hymen and I just funcking opened it lol. There's blood everywhere.
>>34954014>Uh guys, I think this is my hymen?The way you originally described it, your labia started separate and then became fused at the age of 6. That's not how hymens work at all. But unless you're willing to post a photo of it on a red board and link to the post from here, I don't think we're going to be able to figure out what's happening from your description. There's clearly something unusual going on, or your doctor wouldn't have been prescribing creams or suggesting surgery. (But surgery for an imperforate hymen is a thing, so...).
>>34954351I kind of forced it open with a little pressure and lube and it opened more from the peehole upwards and a little downwards? The pressure I applied definitely wasn't strong enough to tear the skin or anything like that, but a little reddish liquid came out, and it stings a little when I pee.
>>34954365>a little reddish liquid came out, and it stings a little when I pee.Sounds like you should stop doing that.
>>34954365it's been 6 hours since then, did that escalate
>>34951498>>34951498The doctor was a jeet and rawdogged your bitch.
>>34951478>she gave me a cream with corticosteroids and estrogen to see if it would open my vagina more, but I used it for 6 months and nothing changedYou really need to use like trainer dildos for something like that. It’s not uncommon for women who have gone through menopause but haven’t been penetrated for a long time to have the same issue. In conjunction with the estrogen etc meds, you have to penetrate with small sizes then slowly increase and work it open more.
>>34954348lmao
>>34955033It doesn't burn anymore when I pee but now two (2) fingers fit.
>>34951494>I really don't want to disappoint him with the truthThe truth is there whether you like it or not. Better he hears it from you beforehand rather than when he's driving you to the hospital because he accidentally ripped you apart.idk anything about your condition, but have you ever tried dilating kits? Also, after you climax things will generally loosen up a bit, so next time you masturbate, see if that's the case for you. It could be as simple as some extensive foreplay and fingering sessions.
>>34954348>have this issue your entire life>decide to brute force solve it in one nightGirl, you need to work on your time management. Not that it matters now, but you can wear down your hymen over time without pain or bleeding, it doesn't even take that long.
No gore please. My tummy hurts
>>34951478Are you willing to give blowjobs? If I was going to see a girl to get some and she still gave blowjobs and we could still grind I would not be disappointed.But you have to be very upfront about what you can and absolutely cannot do. Do not be passive, you have to be open about this.
>>34957014>>34954348Nvm lol
>>34951478pic with timestamp or gtfo larp
>>34951498>they were doing something else and broke her hymen
There is always anal.
>>34951478I can fix you.
>>34957106How
>>34951478My wife was like this. After 10+ years she can now take the fullness of my BWC. Hang in there, sweetie.
>>34951478>>34954348LolLmaoThis has been one of the funniest troll threads I've seen here in years. Nice job OP.A piece of advice though, you gave away the game when you called your pussy a "pussy". Women don't do that out of dirty talk. Also age yourself up a bit, the chances of someone under 25 years old using an image board is exceedingly rare.9/10 bait, very well done overall.
>>34951478This is what your troon friends dont tell you. When you cut your dick and balls off, no matter what the "doctors" do you will always have what is commonly known as an open wound. The wound will always be trying to heal itself aka both sides will want to merge together. The way troons keep their wound open is by dilating, daily, sometimes multiple times a day, sometimes permanently. If you do not dilate, your castration wound will close up on itself and you'll need another surgery to open it back up (if you havent joined the 43% from severe depression).
>>34951478Can't you train you vagina by inserting gradually bigger dildos there? Like starting with your fingers and work your way into a normal penis size.How tall are you?
>>34951494Omg you guys are twinsies!!!!
>>34961061What exactly would she call it?
>>34960332Tiny pp. Great starter cock. Special one time offer, limited time
>>34961061Good ragebait, but you forgot to consider that English isn't my first language + I watch pornography in English, so those were the words I knew.And also, the thread ended because it was indeed my hymen and my problem was solved. It's still tight, but a dick fits in here, so everything's fine. Thank you guys very much for the advice.
>>34961061Real and fake threads are indistinguishable. Real problems are often crazy and funny, while the made up ones can be boring.Stop pretending to be a smartass.
>>34957070Some women break thier hymen while riding thier bike or using a tampon
>>34963429Good threads are indistinguishable I agree. It's why I fell for it so hard>>34962140Most people in the US have sex education prior to starting middle school, I am certain you can solve your own question
>>34951478Oh my god girl please talk to a gynecologist you may need a dilation kit >>34954348NOOOOO ARE YOU OKAY
