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Has dating apps gotten harder?

8 years ago I had a roster of 4 girls I could rotate sleeping with. Now I have trouble getting even one girl.
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I'm in the same boat. killing it in 2021, shit results last year.
male profile competitiveness has gone up a lot (it was bound to happen anyway, and it's only going to get worse)

nowadays I don't even bother and go for the RL approach.
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>>34951764
have you considered you aged?
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>>34951764
You're now 8 years older, much less attractive, and at an age where women expect you not to be behaving like an irresponsible horny teenager anymore.
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>>34951811
Nooo that can't be it, the real answer is le west has fallen because only artificial evil forces could have possibly stopped OP from his oh so noble goal of having 4 girls he fucks on rotation at any given moment. A true travesty of justice.
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>>34951811
>>34951837
neither of you has seen a woman use a dating app in recent years. it's ok but don't come here and post and pretend you know something

the average male profile of today used to be a 10%er just a few years back. just because men had to compete, photos got better, bios got better, etc
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>>34951764
depends on which app you are using and your current look.
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>>34951764
Try bumble it's full of bitches
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>>34951902
>just because men had to compete, photos got better, bios got better, etc
So you can no longer compete by doing just the bare minimum and actually need some effort now?
Once again: a true travesty of justice.
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>>34951950
>> a true travesty of justice.
Indeed
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>>34951764
Yes. I was slaying puss on OkCupid in the late 2010s but they completely changed it to be more like tinder, enshittification.
>>34951811
>You're now 8 years older,
It's a factor for me because that put me over 40 but if OP is under 35 it doesn't matter.
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>>34951950
If foids don't have to why should I?
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>>34951764
Millennial women either turned into hags or got married. So less of them are sluts now.
Gen z women are some wierd depressed chud typically.
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>>34951810
>>34951811
These
As you get older you become a more attractive prospect for marriage and LTRs but your ability to fuck around diminishes unless you are truly a top 10% man, or just have money and date gold diggers
I don't care who you are or how well you aged, a "max-stats" 35 year old will never look as good as a "max-stats" 20 year old
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>>34951764
short answer is: yes.
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>>34951764
The game has changed from 8 years ago. You need to learn the new meta.
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>>34951764
>>34951780
>>34951810
>>34951811
>>34951837

Dating apps suck now

Its pay 2 lose

During covid it peaked, now they withold matches on purpose so you pay more

Just use instagram
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>>34951764
Maybe you got old and lost your hair.
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>>34951811
>at an age where women expect you not to be behaving like an irresponsible horny teenager anymore
And yet women are perpetual children. Another double standard.
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>>34957590
>refuse to date women who arent compliant easy to manipulate 20 year olds who can't see through your 'game'
>"women are all children"
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>>34951837
Hey, don't blame this on us law-abiding chuds.
OP is a degenerate and is himself a symptom of the West falling.
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>>34951764
I think a combination of the aggressive pay-per-everything model and the fact that dating apps aren’t novel anymore has changed them a lot since 2014/2015.

I was getting quality ass back in 2015 after my weight loss transformation in college.

I checked a few months ago, and it’s still possible to get laid, but everyone seems so much more reserved and flaky now.



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