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You know how when you got new neighbors that move in across the street from your house?

And how after they move in you just can't stop staring at them from your house?

How everything they do you just have to look at what they're doing?

How do I stop doing that?
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>>34953077
get cameras to do the lookin for you
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>>34953806
okay but then I'll be forced to look at the cameras
I want to not want to look at them or be obsessed
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>>34953077
No. I have never done that.
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>>34954401
lol liar
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>>34953077
I can't say I've ever had that experience, no. Maybe your problem is that your life is so empty you don't have anything else to think about?
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>>34953077
are you an old slav lady?
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>>34953077
I've never done that. I HAVE worked out the best angle from which to look out my side windows into the bedroom of the people next door.
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>>34954387
You can watch the recordings in fast forward later. It will cut down on the overall time spent looking and you can do other things knowing the camera is on, Maybe you can pay a security company or PI to look at them for you.
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>>34955083
>Maybe you can pay a security company or PI to look at them for you.
Ummmm, I don't want other people involved in this. This is a peeping tom pleasure.
That's like masturbating in your bedroom while your mom is aware what you're doing.
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>>34955133
IDK bro i'm trying to get you to do other things instead while the camera covers your fomo bases
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>>34955190
I'm screwed then
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>>34955190
>fomo
>>34954432
>your life is so empty
then again you do have a point in that I'm so lonely since I was a kid that seeing other people live out their lives sort of triggers me in a weird way that I can't ignore
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>>34953077
They are plotting against you.
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>>34953077
>How do I stop doing that.
Idk why you’d want to stop but think of yourself as an honourable person who respects the privacy of others by minding to your own business. Imagine yourself as that type.
I have some just moved in. Skinny lady was pregnant and now she is not. She must have had the baby but I have not seen yet.
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>>34953077
Just wave if they make eye contact. Problem solved.
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>>34955309
You damn right they are. But I tell you what. I'm gonna get 'em before they get my black ass.
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>>34953077
lowk become friends with them
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>>34953077
Are you an old woman?
I can't really judge you though I hate my mom's newest neighbors.
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>>34953077
Actually make yourself do something. What were you doing before they moved in? Didn't you have shows or games or books or projects? I paid attention to what my neighbors were doing at first just to see what the new patterns were. Now I know that all the new cars are the street every day are their doordash orders and so I don't need to stare when I see a car I don't recognize. They like gardening. Okay, whatever. I looked to make sure that whatever they do won't disrupt me, now I can go back inside, watch TV, play games, and answer /adv/ threads, or go outside and do my usual outside stuff.
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>>34958152
>Now I know that all the new cars are the street every day are their doordash orders
Dude, how much fucking doordash are these niggers ordering? Holy fucking shit
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>>34955480
>think of yourself as an honourable person who respects the privacy of others
It’s literally just this. I am standing in my garage/driveway smoking at pretty much random hours of the day but for long periods of time. I have longtime neighbors who I know well and there are a few houses where people who have come and gone- regardless of who they are, I “see” what they are doing but 5 seconds later I’ve already mostly forgotten because it’s fucking rude to remember. Sometimes there are young teenagers who seem to have snuck out to kick a ball around and chat on my street and in the cul du sac near my house. It’s hard not to hear them talking at 2am when sound carries but I still make a point not to listen to their conversations because I think kids deserve to talk to each other without the adult Gestapo stopping every little thing. They always kinda shit themselves when they see I’m out there but I don’t even care enough about them to tell them that I don’t care enough to tell their parents.
The only thing that’s going to get my attention is
>property destruction
>unfamiliar person (one I’ve never seen) doing sketchy shit
>a child being fucked with in any way
Outside of that, other people deserve to have privacy. I don’t bitch about privacy myself and then go be a nibshit at my neighbors kek
Do they seem weirdly dangerous or something?
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>>34960662
>other people deserve to have privacy
fuck you you virtue signaling nigger lol I remember in my 20s there was this girl that always loved to sunbathe in her bikini on the balcony below mine
luckily the balcony floor had slits in them so I fucking watched her sweet beautiful naked ass all day long like a proud motherfucking pervert fuck yeah
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>>34960778
>virtue signaling
There are no hot women for me to stare at. It’s a nice suburb but mostly dumpy moms. The case may indeed be different if there were. Add hot lady to the list of shit that would get my attention kek
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>>34960790
kek she caught me staring at her one time and then a couple months later she moved lol but I fucking regret nothing
it's like she had a fuckin sixth sense and just turned her head like a fucking sniper and saw my eyes through the slits
sadly I never got a nice opportunity like that again despite all the apartments I've been to since then goddammit lol
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>>34960815
That’s crazy for me to even think about. I’ve never lived in an apartment so just that idea of relative closeness is insane. It would make even me uncomfortable, I think, even if I were the weirdest guy in there. I could look at somebody through the slats but couldn’t some weirder fuck than me look at me in some similarly close way?
For me to even see an attractive woman from my dwelling she’d have to walk by or live directly adjacent to me (which is still many feet away)
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>>34960831
>I’ve never lived in an apartment
you lucky rich bastard lol

>but couldn’t some weirder fuck than me look at me in some similarly close way?
unless you have a vagina and a great set of tits I don't think so lol
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>>34953077
No, and I fucking hate when people do this shit. I don't give a fuck about my neighbors, but they fucking stare at me every time they see me, even make comments in ear shot sometimes, but they're too fucking awkward to just say hello if they're that interested.
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>>34962031
If I'm staring at you from my house, it would be from my window, on the second floor, and you would have no idea I'm watching you. So I don't know what the fuck kind of people you're talking about, but it sure as fuck ain't me.
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>>34960778
That's hot
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>>34964463
Very
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>>34953077
>>34954387
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>>34953077
I dunno, there's a construction crew renovating the boys and girl's club next to my apartment building and I've been watching them teardown the playground and build this weird structure on the yard for like 4 months now.
I've been watching them from my bedroom window. It's hard not to cause of all the fucking noise they make during the day. The fucking trucks, the sawing, the bobcats plowing soil, the cement truck pouring concrete.
It's really fascinating watching how a construction crew builds something from the ground up, all from the comfort of my bedroom window. I dunno, maybe I don't have a life, but I can't look away, as annoying as they are.
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>>34971831
Yeah
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Stalker thread.
Here's my advice, don't be so paranoid.
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>>34976355
OMG You're the Jake guy from State Farm
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>>34976664
Kek, i wish.



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