>>34956293
You can stop doing crack, that'll gova long way to helping

You might be a lost cause. I'm not on drugs but I haven't really "fallen" for anyone since I was like 26, and I'm 34 now. Feels like I've lost the ability to open up to love.
>two days ago, traveling for work
>coworker/gym buddy texts me "yo you know [girl] from the gym?"
>yeah, what's up?
>"dude here's her number, she was wondering where you've been and she said she thinks you're cute!"
>cool, thanks man
>start dreading the fact that I'm now expected to text her
>consider if I should sabotage the talking stage or have a bad date on purpose
>consider avoiding her until I move next month
>consider giving a good faith effort but don't know what I would do if it actually succeeded for a while
>just want to go to an AMP and pay $200 to fuck a tiny Chinese woman without having to talk to her instead of dealing with this

To be loved is to be known and I don't want to be known. I'll probably regret it in 20 years but I already end up regreting all my decisions anyway. Fuck it.

There are other girls besides crackwhores. And those girls are the ones people fall for.

>>34956293
>>34956793
True love is very rare, and if you are able to distinguish between love and basal urges (most people can't), then that is probably a good thing.

>>34956293
>Is there something that can make me more like normal?
I'm very confident that there isn't.

>>34956293
>Is there something that can make me more like normal?
Stop fucking crackwhores and doing drugs for starters.

>>34956293
For some men, attention/validation/affection from women is pretty much all they have. Beyond this they cannot see what else life has to offer.

If you're an insecure faggot, womanizing or blackpilling makes sense.
If, OTOH you're a decent person, and trust your ability to discern whether a woman is worth investing in, you'll probably do well. It's really rare for a bad woman to fake it for long. There are ALWAYS signs, which makes failed marriages predictable.
You don't win unless you try. If you fuck up, they don't eat you. You pay for it, and move on.
I wish I had gotten the realization of just how good my marriage was a little earlier. We were married maybe 12 years before we'd realized that we'd done everything right...
Not that it's perfect. Marriage is hard work sometimes, but it's a life, and a good one.
Why are you such a cowardly faggot that you're not willing to reach for a fulfilling life?

>>34961398
>a fulfilling life must depend on a woman’s validation
Please kill yourself.

>>34956293
do you consistently spend quality time around women? if you're only just seeing women in passing no wonder you can't connect.