Recently I'm pretty sure I ran into a guy who groped me at a festival. We're both guys and I'm not gay.I don't feel weird about it, he was on drugs and it was years ago.We both talked about going to the festival. I realized it was probably him later so he might have realized too.I'm going to potentially see more of this person through hobbies. I don't want to kick him out or anything, actually there's hobby related reasons I want him to stick around.How do I navigate this? I want to communicate to him that I don't feel weird about it, but I'm not gay either. How do I do that? Or do I just ignore it? What I'm worried about is that he'll realize it's me and avoid everyone.I would come out and say it if I was 100% sure it was him, but I'm not, so it's weird.I'm not interested in advice about kicking this person out, going to the cops, etc. He groped me for literally 2 seconds 7 years ago on ecstacy. I'm only interested in maintaining my hobby community.
Grope him back
Have you considered maybe you ARE gay?
>>34957015I'm old enough to know I have zero interest in other guys.
>>34957025You've been bothered 7 years because some guy under the influence touched your pp.Nigga, go to a therapist and have him fix obsessive thoughts.
>>34957031What? I didn't say that it's been bothering me constantly. I haven't thought about it for years, I barely even thought about it afterwards. It took me hours to even remember after talking to a guy who looks and sounds exactly like the guy who groped me about the festival.My only concern is that he gets weird about it, either thinks I'm interested or avoids the group because I was not into it back when he groped me and is worried about allegations.
Bump
>>34957041If you want the maintain the current status quo the best option is to do nothing. Chances are seeing how he was drunk he doesn't remember it or you. It also might not even be him. You're only pretty sure, not 100% sure.
>>34956973Just don’t mention it, who gives a shit. If he gropes you again then tell him “don’t do that”
I wouldn't be able to keep a friendship with a guy who groped me, even if he was on drugs or whatever.
>>34958108Yeah you're probably right.>>34958196It helps that I didn't know him before, haven't seen him for 7 years, and haven't thought about him for probably 6 years.
>>349569732 seconds, 7 years ago, and you've been thinking about it ever since. I don't know who the gay one here is or if it's both of you.
>>34956973You can try sucking his cock to make him forget?
