I'm a 31 year old virgin man, I've had quite a few chances to lose it but always imagined that I'd lose it to my future wife, I'm an atheist, if that matters.I have several women asking me for sex right now, should I just lose it and be a manwhore while searching for my wife/mother of my future children, or should I stay celibate?I'm still just a coomer so I can't imagine that women would respect my supposed chastity anyway.
>>34957574>I have several women asking me for sex right now, should I just lose it and be a manwhore while searching for my wife/mother of my future childrenYes you idiot. If you keep waiting you run the risk of NOBODY wanting to have sex with you. Take advantage of it while you can. Jesus fucking Christ.
>>34957574I actually disagree with the first post. The most important question you can ask yourself is this:- What do you actually want?Do you actually want to be a manwhore?Or do you actually want a loving, real connection with a real good woman like you?Sex with women you don't actually want is just masturbating with a body. There's nothing there.
>>34957574>I have several women asking me for sex right now, should I just lose it and be a manwhore while searching for my wife/mother of my future children, or should I stay celibate?You're 31. You're already past your prime, but not by much. You can't afford to be passive anymore. You shouldn't do anything with these women, nor should you aim to fool around in general, but the fact that *any* woman is willing to look your way shows that it's hardly pointless for you to take more initiative in pursuing women who actually do interest you.
>I can't imagine that women would respect my supposed chastity anywayWomen don't respect chastity- in men or women.>searching for my wife/mother of my future childrenYou search for her by having sex with women. Do you expect the Disney dream of you two meeting eyes and instantly knowing that you two are the main leads?
>>34957574I respect you anon. It's hard for guys like us because sex only after marriage is typically a Christian only value. The pool is extremely limited for men like us. The thing is if they are marriageable material, they would wait for marriage before sex and your explanation of that "I'm interested, but I want things slow with sex only after marriage" should be acceptable to her if she actually cares about you. And you need her to actually care about you in order for her to be marriage material. And even then she might not be as many women these days marry just to screw the guy out of money. The only other issue is what if the sex sucks, and are you okay with her not being a virgin? Because that's even more limiting.What are you doing to get into these situations anyway?
>>34957708I'm not OP. It takes far more than sexual compatibility for someone to make a good mother. That's actually the least important factor. You need to see if she has the personality for it. Is she caring, protective, nurturing? That's the point of dating, not just getting laid. The point of sex is to see help your compatibility with her, but that doesn't tell you anything about if she'd be a good parent.
>>34957594Well, if OP waits he does run the risk. However I interpret waiting as doing nothing. In that regard, the first post is right. However, OP can still pursue without escalating immediately to sex. If she is marriage material she'll respect OP enough to care about his feelings on the matter.
>>34957574>always imagined that I'd lose it to my future wifeYou think it's best to wait until after you're married to find out the two of you aren't sexually compatible?
>>34957708>Women don't respect chastityFalse. What is true is that women place relatively less emphasis on it. They're more willing to compromise in favor of other traits, but that doesn't mean they're incapable of valuing or respecting it. Doubly so among women who aren't themselves promiscuous.>>34957891>The thing is if they are marriageable material, they would wait for marriage before sex and your explanation of that "I'm interested, but I want things slow with sex only after marriage" should be acceptable to her if she actually cares about you.This>>34958380Sexual "compatibility" is almost entirely a meme, and pretending that having sex is the only way to figure it out is a pure rationalization.The vast majority of supposed incompatibilities are resolved just as easily, and often better, through waiting and open communication.
>always imagined that I'd lose it to my future wifeWhy?You are not a female, you don't increase your value to the opposite gender by staying celibate, you LOWER it.>manwhoreThere's no such thing as a "manwhore", let alone a single guy exercising his options.You have an entirely feminized and bluepill view of intersexual dynamics. Man and women are not equals.
>>34958457>The vast majority of supposed incompatibilities are resolved just as easily, and often better, through waiting and open communication.Hahahaha, chriscucks man. You can always expect the most retarded bluepill bullshit from one.
>>34958470Go ahead, name one serious, relatively common issue where this isn't true.
>>34957574>31 yo atheist virgin>(In)voluntary celibate>Waiting for the right one (allegedly)>Several chances to lose it (allegedly)>Literally asking right now (allegedly)>CoomerAre you scared or just gay?
