Chatted with this guy for 3 months after meeting him in military training. Found out a couple nights ago while we were playing vidya together he got a girlfriend a couple weeks ago. The morning after I confessed and told him I couldn't be friends with him anymore as everything we did together was only due to my crush on him. He told me to have a good life.I can't get over what I did but I know I had to do it. He was the first guy in years I developed feelings for and I spent 3 months building something with him only for it to be disposed of so easily by him. I killed something good because of my own selfish desires. How do I move on from this? Should I even try to reconnect as friends at a later time?
Just give it timeYou should not contact this person again
>>34957776>Should I even try to reconnect as friends at a later time?If you think you can handle that, sure.
>>34957776Tell him you discovered JAV the other day and became straight so all is cool, and that he should tell you all about his happy moments with his girlfriend.People just move on anon, and they do remember fondly others, but only after not seeing them in a while. Also stop being gay.
Move on. This was not meant to be and you'll only be miserable if you stay in contact.
>>34957776Men and women can't be friends.
>military trainingGet real. He likely has so many other girls on the line, and it's doubtful him or his girlfriend are gonna be faithful once he gets deployed somewhere. Don't fuck around with loose military men to begin with, stupid. He's gonna be raping minorities in some foreign country. He doesn't give a shit about you lol, you were just easy side pussy until you found out he had a relationship. Don't ask don't tell is how it goes these days
