so, i’ve been dating this guy for a month now. He never really confessed or anything, just started to call me his girlfriend and talking about us dating, whatever, no big deal. But i’ve always had troubles with falling in love, even if i think i love somebody, once we actually start dating i kinda can’t actually fall in love. But the thing is, this guy is funny and my type, he’s shorter than me and a bit younger which i really like. So i really wanna be able to love him like he loved me. So basically i really need tips on how to fall in love, i’ll take any recommendations no matter how crazy..
>>34958044Just follow my step-by-step procedure.
literally nothing you can do to force it, just stay at it and see if it works out. appreciate the little things.
>>34958044Have you ever had a crush before?
>Have you ever had a crush before?yes i have, yet i always seem to lose interest once the feelings are reciprocated and they ask to date me.
>>34958044Do you have a discord?
>>34958049This it right here, but also the fact that you want to be able to love him like he loves you is a good sign. It means you care about him and that is part of falling in love. It's more intense for different people at different times and it comes and goes. A couple is very rarely in love with each other the same amount at the same time. Sometimes he loves you more and other times you love him more and it is not a competition at all. The worst thing is that even with words and actions there is no way to actually to truly show how much you love someone.
>>34958074Lmao dude get real
>>34958081I'm serious
>>34958069Crush feelings like that are an excitement about wondering if they like you back. Naturally you lose that feeling once it is confirmed. You can replace that feeling with wondering how it will be as the relationship continues.
>>34958074i do have discord,,
>>34958084>how did you meet my mom>well son when i begged random strangers on the internet to add me on social media as soon as i found out they were women
>>34958100send me the discord
>>34958130@panickedangel
>>34958109Why are you worried about a woman who I can help?
>>34958143Notice how this guy never asks men for their discord
>>34958044Dumb question. Love isn't so emotional for everyone. It can be a lot more practical and pragmatic.
>>34958141You are being targeted by a sex predator retard
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>>34958044You can't force love. The most you can do is let it happen; open yourself up to the possibility. If it's something you struggle with, it may be because you're too scared of getting hurt to let yourself feel it.
>>34958069The more crushes you have the less you feel them.Eventually you stop getting them altogether. A perpetual crush is not the same thing as love.To me, Love is like the desire to be with someone because you enjoy their company. That enjoyment doesn't come into full effect instantly, it has to be built over time.
>>34958226>all men are sex predatorstrue but irrelevant.
>>34958252>I regret to inform you that you have broken this subre- I mean BOARD's rules, and I have no choice but to report your post. Try to avoid such infractions in the future.
>>34958252shut the fuck up you goddamn nerd
