i’m a shut-in girl, around 165cm tall at 54kg. I have glasses and unkept blonde hair and i wouldn’t say i’m the most unattractive person. I enjoy playing visual novels and im pretty much always on my phone. I’ve never been in a real relationship excluding online relationships.Every time i ask somebody out in real life i get rejected or they break up within a day, so i’ve never really dated anybody. I really wanna get into a relationship yet i have severe social anxiety and really wanna improve, is there any way for somebody as useless as me to get into a relationship?I’m very close to giving up entirely on love, but i always see people portraying being in a relationship as the most fulfilling thing in existence, and i wanna experience it sometime.I desperately need any help with this, since i don’t wanna be a single loser forever..
>>34958279You're a frog poster. It's over. Comb your hair and chill out on dates.
work on yourself first, you clearly aren't where you want to be and have self image issues
>>34958279>I’m a girlYou have to try really hard to be alone then.
>>34958279Just don't be fat and post pictures online, it's literally that easy for girls, all the work is done FOR YOU. Ozempic and other weightloss drugs are readily available nowadays, get a grip, fucking women
>>34958308You must not read metric. She's not overweight at all.
>>34958279>i’m a shut-in>i have severe social anxiety>i always see people portraying being in a relationship as the most fulfilling thing in existenceWork on this first, you don't really want to date, you're just feeling empty/lonely and getting fomo. If you try to date now you're going to get into endless abusive relationships with rapechads until you hate men because they're the only ones that are going to ignore the "don't talk to me" signals you're unconsciously sending out because you hate yourself.
>>34958308Her BMI is 19.8. That's hardly fat.
>>34958279You sound cute, do you have any socials? Also the reality is that men and women don’t really have proper spaces to meet each other which is why you have a lot of shut in men and women. I’m the same way in that I’ve tried to meet women in bars and such but have never really bonded with them.
The most important and valuable thing about a woman you haven't mentioned: AgeYou cannot force yourself to love anyone, it's something that happens organically. But you have to actually meet people in order for you to meet someone you like who is also interested in you and try a relationship together.I also think you shouldn't be paranoid about this as you risk getting with someone who you shouldn't be with out of desperation.
>>34958279Let us see what we are working with here, tits and timestamp please.
>>34959525Hot.
Women can't suffer from loneliness.
>>34958279What visual novels do you like to read?
>>34960609i’ve been really into lovebrush chronicles, klein v.0.1, saihate station and many others, i tend to sit at my computer for hours at a time playing various visual novels…
>>34958279The world is not going to come looking for you. You MUST put yourself out there. There are many ways to start. Here's one: look for situations where you will be physically DOING something in the company of others doing it. A job, a team sport, volunteering, etc etc. The Doing will take up some of the time and attention, making you less worried about the social interaction, doing the same thing will give you and others something in common to chat about, and when you're all through with the shared job, transitioning into just hanging out ("Let's all go for a beer when we're done") will be easier.Notice that I said nothing about love and romance. That comes later, when you and one of those around you (or you and someone one of them introduces you to) hit it off.
>>34960684>YumejoI'm sorry femanon we can't be friends but I hope you find your cute weeb bf
>>34958323i’ve been recently trying to interact with atleast somebody once a week, it’s not a lot but it’s better than nobody..
>>34958279Are you ugly?
>>34969671i wouldn’t say i’m gorgeous, but im not ugly atleast. I’d say i’m average?
>>34971315Then you should have no issues.I would probably date you, but I'm already in a relationship. Bonus:I'm handsome.Drawback:I'm dirt poor.
>>34958279I'm from Europe so idk if the distance would be a deal breaker, I'm also almost bald
>>34958279Try tinder or literally any dating app? Go for the losers who aren't ugly but don't have good profiles if you don't want le normie chad. You'll get 50+ likes in an hour or less, go from there. Being single is definitely not a real problem you'll have if you just do this.Finding someone who's worthwhile is more challenging, but even with this method it might happen.
>shut in>likes VNs>never been in a relationship >probably smells weird Literally my type. I'd kiss you if we met IRL.
>>34972212>kissKys, sexpest.
>>34958279tits or gtfoif you're really having trouble being around people, try to join a hobby group.>>34972212op is a dude, you probaly knew that though
