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i’ve been wondering something, how come pretty much every man i see on social media these days be incredibly misogynistic?

they whine and complain about being single and unloveable, then turn around calling random woman ‘foids’, ‘stress reliever’ and ‘bitch’.

Do they not realize that being a piece of shit won’t attract any women?

Dont give me any bullshit on how a woman rejected them or something, get over it. I’ve been rejected multiple times by men yet i’m not here calling them derogatory names.

It’s always “not all men are the same”, yet when a woman does something bad it’s “all woman are the same!!”

Why?
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>>34958485
I'd wager most men aren't, the reason you are looking for is called being a normal fag and fitting in. At most many of these people empathize with their difficulties in dealing with women and say negative things to relieve their stress.
To geniunely believe that women should be treated as slaves or have their right to vote removed, very few actually think like that.
>Do they not realize that being a piece of shit won’t attract any women?
This simply isnt true. A lot of women really do fall for "assholes." Just not ones with a pathetic inferiority complex.
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most people have a victim complex where they want to blame anything but themselves for their problems. they factors beyond their control that disadvantage them in achieving their goals and then act like theyre far more important than they are

blaming looks and unfair standards or whatever for being totally unable to get a partner means it's not their fault they aren't willing to put the effort in. it's even easier to up the ante to all women being evil bitches so they do not even have to try.

there is a nugget of truth to a lot of incel seethe, conventional attractiveness standards are warped and unfair (way more for women than men but also for men), people are often judged for things they can't control, dating apps are evil soul vaccums, abusive men are often able to get and keep partners using a mixture of abuse tactics and being conventionally attractive. none of these things lead to the conclusions they draw, but because the conclusions are bad people often deny the fundamental principles which makes them feel vindicated that they're right and just being lied down to when anyone challenges them.


a lot of them were also hurt in childhood by women in authority positions and are unwilling to confront that directly.
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>>34958485
Why do women sleep around and act gracelessly, yet expect to be treated with the deference and decorum afforded to them before feminism and the sexual revolution?

At a bar I head a chubby chick with mile-long cleavage complain that men just want mommy for a gf.
Yes. I want the mother of my children to be kindhearted and innocent, not to have had 50-100 men before me.
As a man, I am the provider. Women dress up to attract men. As a woman, you should demonstrate why I should provide for you (since that is my only worth in your eyes).
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>>34958912
who do you protect thats not ur left hand lol
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Because there’s way more ways that interactions with women can go wrong than right and that’s assuming you even get over the insanely overpowering fear of approaching and actually go talk to them. As a guy that actually can sleep with women, the whole process feels like walking a tight rope at times. It’s an awful process. You’re bringing your A-game and I mean your fucking A-game because anything less is not good enough, in order to win the attention and affection of a girl who is almost certainly going to find creative and exciting ways to make you absolutely fucking miserable. Everyone acts like you’re Satan for talking to women which adds another uphill battle to fight. Most women are boxes of horrors just waiting to be opened and they expect you to be grateful to be exposed to those horrors. I could go on and on. And all of that is AFTER you’ve done the prerequisite work such that talking to a girl isn’t a complete humiliating waste of your time. I don’t hate women, but I 100% understand how you could. Especially in the U.S. which are by far the worst women on Earth I’ve ever come across.
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>>34958485
>how come pretty much every man i see on social media these days be incredibly misogynistic
because you watch the videos and interact with it
you choose your own feed via what you interact with dawg
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>>34958485
>how come pretty much every man i see on social media these days be incredibly misogynistic
That has nothing to do with the actual state of the world. The algorithm has learned that that's the kind of content that will keep you engaged. You may say you hate it but you keep coming back to hate on it more. My feed is filled with teenage girls.
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>>34958485
>Do they not realize that being a piece of shit won’t attract any women?

most that do this probably are more self aware than you realise, and women wouldn't give the time of day anyways because they aren't attractive enough. So they entertain themselves, at least. Think about it. Its not like they're convincing anyone with their screed rehetoric, so why do it?

Its either an ego stroke, a seeking of validation through ragebait, or could also be a proclamation against women or the system that has wronged them.

>I’ve been rejected multiple times by men yet i’m not here calling them derogatory names.
if poster is a woman, you would be the exception, esp for interactions on social media. Not that you actually care, you're paying way too much attention to shit-posting men.
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Misogyny doesn't exist
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>>34959810
lol ok look at this uneducated loser
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>>34958485
>i’ve been wondering something, how come pretty much every man i see on social media these days be incredibly misogynistic?
They've met women.
>they whine and complain about being single and unloveable, then turn around calling random woman ‘foids’, ‘stress reliever’ and ‘bitch’.
>Do they not realize that being a piece of shit won’t attract any women?
They know, but don't care.
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>>34958485
>how come pretty much every man i see on social media these days be incredibly misogynistic?
Consider the sourse. You are looking at the places where socially unsuccessful guys hang out and pity themselves. The vast majority of men are out there having normal active social lives and not sitting home on 4chan.

It's like looking only in bars and wondering why so many people you see drink.
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>>34958509
This. Blowing off frustration-steam on the internet instead of doing anything in real life or being an anonymous incel is not being a misogynist. If anything, actual misogyny is still immediately bannable on every platform except this one
Problem is that literally any criticism of women or frustration with their behavior = misogyny to the female observer. How dare you.
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>>34960693
One the scale of extremism, women wouldn’t even begin to call something misandry until the point of “genocide all men”. They start defining misogyny at the line of being criticized on the internet, however.
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>>34960693
pretty sure when men say that women shouldn’t have rights and are simply stress relievers it’s misogyny, idk tho
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>>34960728
You don’t know indeed.
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>>34960693
>>34960732
Don’t even bother. Hyperincels make these threads, pretending to be retarded and obnoxious women. They want you to hate women so you’ll be a faggot with them so they try to make women look bad by acting retarded
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>>34958485
>how come pretty much every man i see on social media these days be incredibly misogynistic?
Being provocative online is a recipe for more attention, clicks, or views

>Do they not realize that being a piece of shit won’t attract any women?
A lot of this content is aimed for young men who aren't tall, wealthy, and who don't possess good social skills. It's a lot easier to tell them women suck than to tell them to improve. And there's another perverse incentive: dating dynamics means it's much harder on men to find a date or relationship than women of the same age group. Men notice this, and it's easy to sell young men on a victimhood mentality.
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>>34958485
TPTB distract us making us hate based on gender, ethnicity, religion. When we should be judging people based on class. Okay, there are some down-on-their-luck good folk, but on the whole poor people are ugly, disgusting, mean vermin who destroy any physical and social environment they get put into. Just look at any poor neighborhood of any ethnicity, it's the concentration of the most dysgenic and unsuited to civilization.
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A lot of men were failed by the systems around them. They weren’t positively challenged, given meaningful opportunities to succeed, or given much guidance from their fathers.

A lot of male empowerment content gives them a sense of community and makes them feel like they aren’t defective or alone in their struggles.

I could have fallen into that trap for the longest time, but I was eventually able to crawl out of it. I’ve had a wonderful last couple of years as a result.
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>>34958485
On one hand you are probably getting played by the algo because you look at one thing it shows you more of the same. Other hand maybe there is a lot of it and it's only a measured and deserved reaction to all the women content about hating men.
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>>34958485
>Do they not realize that being a piece of shit won’t attract any women?
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>>34958485
>Do they not realize that being a piece of shit won’t attract any women?
Flip this around. Being pro social in itself won't attract any women either.
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>>34958485
>Do they not realize that being a piece of shit won’t attract any women?

If women aren't attracted to them to begin with, what's the harm?
Personality is a meme anyway. I seen women ignore stuff like being a convicted pedophile or woman beater because the guy was freakishly tall.
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>>34958485
>Do they not realize that being a piece of shit won’t attract any women?
this statement misses a part of the picture and tries to create correlation, or even worse, causality, where there is none.

on the lower end of the male success distribution curve, you have misogynistic incels, that's true.
but on the higher end you have misogynistic chads (we used to call them 'macho' types) who game, pump and dump relentlessly because they simply don't care. and you shouldn't worry too much about them, they have no trouble attracting new women.
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>>34958485
A lot of men who have their shit together don't use social media.



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