Is what she said after I told her I'm 27 and she said she's 20. Lol. It's not my fault I wasn't around back then and a total trainwreck. This is such fucking bullshit. Should I have lied to her about my age? People think I'm younger than I look. But lying wouldn't make a good foundation for a relationship... What would you have done?
>>34959594You failed a shit test, or she wasn't that interested.
>>34959597Really? Her vibe was insecure but she dud feel flattered. I even asked her to wait for 2 years and she still pushes back. I think she really just didn't want such an age gap
>>34959597no shitface for your face>>34959594you are just unattractivewomen make rules for oofy doofieand break them for men they are attracted to
>>34959594idk OP 7 years is a pretty big gap I started uni with people two years younger than me and even that was already too much for me to relate to anything they were on about but maybe you're different
>>34959635Nah I'm hot>>34959640Yeah you're right in a way, I felt how she was like not really aware of reality or something, kinda naive too, but that was kinda cute too in a way. Not sure how much in common we'd even have though
>>34959649if you were attractive she wouldn’t mind dating a man age 27
>what would you have doneDated someone of an appropriate age
>>34959651I'm just not really neurotypical, you see? Almost everyone I talk to realizes I'm a bit different. I guess that was also a reason as to why she didn't want to date me.>>34959733Fair enough, I'm just not really into not-young looking girls
>>34959635>>34959651For reference, people say I look like Troy Sivan or Cole Sprouse, so it's something else that deterred her
>>34959746anyone you date will get older as linear time progresses either way, even if you start out dating them whilst they're way too young for you. it's not a lever you can flip but you need to learn to appreciate the beauty of people your own age if you want to be successful in romance.
FFS, man, grow up. She's 20. Aren't you established with an adult life yet? What are you going to talk about? Taylor Swift? Focus on your future. Build a good life and women come to you.
>>34959594You are fool, if you got slapped would you blame the hand or the person who slapped you? Huh? Why is this any different?
>>34959971>established life expected by 27>man has no woman>disconnect>bueller?!?!?
>>34959594>What would you have done?I wouldn't have seethed about it this much.
>>34959594you are lucky she didnt report you for rape
>>34959782neither of them is good looking + believing what normies have to say is a retarded thing in itself
>>34959594Move on, little nigga.
>>34959640>idk OP 7 years is a pretty big gapNeopuritan feminist bullshit
>>34959872>they're way too young for you>learn to appreciate the beauty of people your own age if you want to be successful in romanceNice try, I'll still go for the girls I think are hot and pretty, they just happen to be young
>>34960253Neopuritanism is when morality becomes more advanced as society developsI know your prophet raped an 8 year old but pedophilia is out
>>34959872yeah no grandmas and that cougar bullshit is just that
>>34959971>What are you going to talk about?The latests memes and celebrity gossip>Focus on your future. Build a good life and women come to you.Who says I'm not doing that already?
>>34960049What does this even mean?>>34960054>>disconnect>>bueller?!?!????
>>34960265guy who's going to die alone LOL
>>34960055True, I'm getting too worked uo over just this one girl lol>>34960089Yeah, because we only talked? Schizo>>34960193They're good-looking to women and that's all that matters, plus I'd rather be with a normie foid than with an insane weeb foid
>>34960222Fineee, I will. It's just... I went out of my way just to hit on her. Whatever. Thank you!Trips of truth.
>>34960279Nope! And I'm sorry you have such low standards and self-respect for yourself lol
>>34960284you are a predator like all men and talked to a 20 year old girl who is basically 16
>>34960310You are delusional
>>34960313you better hope you prove to be when the judge delivers the verdict
>>34960296?????do you realise if you are only willing to date people under the age of 23 you will never have a long term partner and will therefore die alone because all of your relationships are on a timer
>>34960331What verdict?>>34960336No, there are women who take care of themselves and look stunning no matter the age. Go outside
>>34960344Okay so date them and not 20 year olds retard
She isn't attracted in you and used age as a plausible excuse to reject you.Any different answer ITT is wrong and anyone going on about the age difference like it's actually a big deal is a retard with the brain fried by american age hysteria. At 20 years old she has only like 2 years before her prime ends and the ideal age difference is way more than 7 years.
>>34960371>At 20 years old she has only like 2 years before her prime ends
>>34960371>used age as a plausible excuse to reject you.FUCKWait, what is the ideal age difference then, 10 years?
>>34960347Nah lol>>34960377Yeah it already ended at 16, right?
>>34960284no they are not good lookingwho the fuck told you that?
>>34960548>who the fuck told you that?Foids did
>>34960551well guess fucking whatfoids will say one thing, and so something COMPLETELY different
>>34960652Yeah, depending on context that is true
>>34959594Lie. Women complain about men too much we may as well give them real reasons to complain or they will just make shit up.
>>34959594I would've been terrified of a 27 year old when I was 20.
>>34959594>What would you have done?Say "ok, no worries" and stop talking to her. Your best chance of them coming back is when you don't give a fuck at all.
>>34959594You fucking pedophile. Fuck you. 20 years old? She might as well have been 10.
>>34959640>>34959971>20 years old… just a fuggin kid…this is how you people sound btw
>>34961444Why?
>>34959594>Should I have lied to her about my age?What? Are you retarded?
>>34962143Why?
>>34961476based - this pedo is out of control here
>>34961579Because that's a real adult with like, job experience and a credit card, the ability to buy alcohol, and a fully developed beard. I didn't even get my licence until I was 20. Imagine a 21 year old trying to date a 14 year old. That's scary. At 20 I was still pretty naive and immature.
>>34963155A 20 year old is a real adult.
>>34963155Why is it scary?
>>34961448Based, thank you
>>34963183I assure you I was not.>>34963192Because at 20 I would perceive someone 7 years older than me as much more mature and somewhat intimidating. I was a kind of childish idiot who only got my first part time job that year I had no business dating someone who was paying for their own insurance.
>>34963155>job experienceNo>credit cardNo>The ability to buy alcoholAre you some middle schooler trying too hard to be cool?>Fully developed beardTFW nut milk jak>Driver's licenseStill no. These are all materialistic things.Real maturity comes from decency, common sense, life experience, the ability to have compassion for one and another, being down-to-earth, being observant, patience, and a lot more.What you're talking about is middle school shit.
>>34963246>misses the point so hard he accidentally agrees with meAt 20 I felt like a middle schooler trying to be cool. I was not ready to date someone mature.>life experience Yeah, didn't have any of that. Wasn't comfortable dating someone who had a lot more of it than me. >Common sense, down-to-earth, observant, patient Was also lacking in these.
>>34963251>Yeah, didn't have any of thatWhat did you do in those 20 years?
>>34963206>Because at 20 I would perceive someone 7 years older than me as much more mature and somewhat intimidatingI still don't get it, how is that actually intimidating? Are you like a coward or something? I know I had no problem fucking the cougar that was 8 years older than me though even though she also had much more experience than I did
>>34963315Mostly neopets>>34963320>cowardAt 20? Fuck yeah I was. A coward and still mostly a child. Like I said, I had no business dating someone who was paying for his own insurance. If it was a normal 27 year old hanging out with me would have felt like babysitting. I don't think I was comfortable with an age gap of more than a couple years until I was like 26.
>>34963155>>34963206>>34963358You’re deranged
>>34963445Nah she's just jealous of the younger girls o algo
>>34959594Have options. Then you wouldn't be seething about some random girl.
>>34963538Good advice. Thank you
>>34960268SHE WAS 9 YOUR RACIST CHUD
>>34963570and STOP GOING AFTER 12 YEAR OLDS
>>34963584I never did
It's insane how misogynistic people are in here for comparing female adults to literal children
>>34959971>She's 20.for a woman 20 is a fully grown adult
>>34959640>with people two years younger than me and even that was already too much for methis american virtue signaling is getting insane. yeah 2 years younger such a huuuuge gap lol
>>34961481that's not even close to what I was saying>>34965920and neither is this I said 7 years was pretty big I didn't say 2 was I said that I couldn't relate to 20 year olds at 22 you illiterate nigger
>>34960268>Morality becomes more advancedYour cultural restrictions become stronger. There is absolutely no such thing as morality in nature. I can't believe you'd even bring up something as ridiculous as so called "morals" aka culturally conditioned values. Please read some of ted k's writing at the very least. You are massively oversocialised.
>>34960279As if dying is a bad thing... LOL. I hope the next Adam Lanza kills you when you're at the supermarket. Your value judgements and internal logic are torturing you, please recognise this.
>>34963155Please realise that all of the things you listed are IMAGINARY man made systems which have no basis in nature. You are BRAINWASHED and INSANE.
>>34966044dying is not a bad thing for many poor men we need to y33t skirt out of here rather than propagate and play along in their shit
>>34966074Humans are suppopsed to have EVOLVED above BEASTS but you still run according to your EVOLUTIONARY BIOLOGY - its insane like chuds get a load of this goyim
>>34959594Women fuck dogs and children all the time they literally do not give a shit about age. This was an excuse. Move on.
>>34966152Please read Ted Kaczynski's and Adam Lanza's writings. They might be a good entry point for you to leave your delusion
>>34966174Why is my neurodivergency such an issue for women then? I just don't get it
>>34966174>they literally do not give a shit about ageThen why do they pretend to? Some girls even shamed me for it
>>34966174>>34969752Calling me a p*do even, like wtf
>>34969752because you are a beta buxxer and need to stay in the nursery you AREN"T ALLOWED TO HAVE PREFERENCES
>>34969757>beta buxxerThat sounds bad, what does actually mean?
>>34959594For some of you no reason is good enough to stop you once you set your eye on a girl. She says not interested, you demand a reason and then dismiss her reason.
>>34969919it means you are not a wild one or a chad and are something she settles for
>>34959594there are literal billions of other women out there OPwhy bother with her, she's obviously not interested>Should I have lied to her about my age?you're obviously a beginner at this, so I'll lay it out in plain text: women won't say (or even sometimes know, "vibes", "gut feeling" and all) the real reason mostly because they're afraid of men's reactions, and rightfully so. trust me when I say: when the man who's attractive enough / has enough game comes along, she'll open her legs. and this man may very well be 10 years older than you.you tried, she said no, move onto the nextbesides, dwelling on a rejection is a symptom of scarcity mentality which is not good
>>34970292Don't all girls settle anyway?
>>34970364>when the man who's attractive enough / has enough game comes along, she'll open her legsThat depends on the girl though>dwelling on a rejection is a symptom of scarcity mentality which is not goodShe was just really fucking pretty, okay, so I got a little desperate. I have two dates lining up this weekend, so I'm abundant. They're pretty too as well
>>34970364THANKS for your advice though, I unironically appreciate it.
>>34959594It's not a big deal for a 27 year old to date a 20 year old. But it is a big deal for the 20 year old. The gap looks smaller looking backwards than looking forwards.When you're an adult and you hear about a high school senior dating a freshman - whatever, two high schoolers dating. But that kind of thing makes your head explode when you're in high school.Some women are open to age-gap dating, some aren't. It's not even about attraction, it's an emotional leap to actually date someone older even if they find him hot. You think "we're both in our 20's". But she just got there, and now this guy who's ALMOST 30!??! is hitting on her.This is how life is experienced. . . . . . . . . . .But anyway the advice is just try someone else
>>34970685fuck I tried to make the dots getting farther apart but it didn't render the increasing spaces
>>34970685>>34970690I get what you mean, thank you. What were the increasingly more separate dots supposed to convey?
>>34970708o-o--o---o----o-----o------o-------o--------o---------oYour life is a combination of all your past experiences plus the moment you're living in. You've been 20 before, you remember what it was like and maybe it doesn't feel that long ago. But for the 20 year old, the 7 years it takes them to get to 27, that's like half of their conscious life.So as you get older, the age range that you consider your cohort expands. But someone earlier on the dot chain might not see it that way.
>>34970750I mean that's true but when I was 20 I was traveling the fucking world lmao, okay no, I was 21. Point is, I wasn't afraid
>>34970811I was talking about how you relate to time not fear of doing things. But yeah go ahead tell that to the next younger woman you meet. "I was travelling when I was 21 so you might as well date me, don't be a pussy."
