>>34959977
Most women are multi-orgasmic: you probably want to make her come at least half a dozen times before penetration.

The most important thing to understand about sex is that, for a woman, it's about 70% mental and 30% physical. So, even if you have the best technique in the world, if you haven't said and done all the right things when you're *not* in bed together, it won't matter much. Talk is very important to many women *in* bed too. Even when it comes to what you do, you always need to keep the mental aspects in mind. For example, never just do anything, always build anticipation first. If, say, she likes having her nipples played with, don't just start playing with them; start by stroking round the outside of the breast and slowly spiral inwards, so she has several seconds of knowing it's coming.

Communication is also vital. There's an enormous amount of variation between women: what one woman likes in bed, another will hate. So you need to ask her what she likes, and pay careful attention to the way she reacts to things. Many women go crazy when you go down on them skillfully, for example, but a sizeable minority simply don't like it, no matter what you do. There's no point in trying to "train" her to enjoy something she doesn't like, it won't work.

Two final hints: 1) Don't go straight for the clitoris, get her warmed up a little first. 2) Learn the anatomy of the clitoris; it is a lot larger and more complex than most men realise, it's just that most of it is inside, under the skin.

>>34959977
Have an enormous dick. It has always worked for me

>>34960145
This guy has never had sex.

>>34960149
I have had sex since I was 9. I am 37 now. Yes, me having sex started before puberty. It was with my 15 year old babysitter. I am now married with a woman slightly younger than I. It took literally more than a decade for her to be able to take my full dick at full force. That said, I have always made women cum even when I was having to withold the full thing and/or full power.

>>34960161
virgin making up being raped as a kid as a brag

>>34960172
>virgin that is jealous that other men have sex
I don't have weird baggage about what I said. We had sex when I was young. I considered myself lucky, I still do. To say she raped me is retard propaganda. You are just a projection machine.

Like the first poster said, the mental aspect is extremely important. Women's imagination and anticipation is the most powerful trigger of sexual pleasure for them and the best ally a man can have.

If you know the right things to do and to say you can make a woman addicted to you like you're crack cocaine. But even if there's a lot of overlap, some women might have different buttons that you need to press in order to trigger their fantasies. So if you care about a woman and want to maximize her pleasure you'll have to find out what these buttons are by actually getting to know her and also being mindful of how she responds physically to what you do and to what you say, in and out of bed.

>>34960161
>It took literally more than a decade for her to be able to take my full dick at full force.
Yeah, this guy has never had sex. Kek.

>>34960138
Thank you for the post, Anon. She told me she is kind of submissive but also seems quite a sexual person. I "plan" on going progressively as you said, give her simple commands to exert the dominance she likes and things like that. I hope I don't miss the phsyical hints

>>34960250
Just because your pussy is naturally enormous doesn't mean every woman's is.

>>34960299
I'm a man, who has had sex.

>>34960274
Okay. But don't confuse dominance with aggression. Genuinely dominant men don't need to shout or get rough.

>>34960299
this is not how anything works lol

You people make retarded leaps in judgment abd atick by them no matter how obviousæy wrong you are, all bc you're too scared of the idea that a randpm person online might have a different life than you

>>34960274
>give her simple commands to exert the dominance she likes
Bear in mind that truly dominant people never need to "assert dominance". They simply take it as read that they're in charge, and everyone else recognises that. Someone who is not genuinely dominant but trying to fake it and not doing a very good job of it will say "Come here and kiss me before I smack your ass, bitch!" and then shove his tongue down her throat. A genuinely dominant man will simply take her head in his hands and kiss her in whatever way he wants - perhaps very gently - because he's confident she wants it.