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Lots of /adv/ice around getting girls is to have female friends and get comfortable interacting with women and treat them like humans and the like. But how do I do that without actually dating them?

If I ask a girl to hangout then she's going to obviously assume its a date and either reject me, or accept thinking that its a date and then leading to a bad situation wjere I'm sort of leading her o and then she falls out with me after toying with her anyway. In both these cases I don't end up with a female friend.

I just guess I don't really believe in this idea that men and women can be 'friends'. You'd have to keep declaring >"BY THE WAY YOU'RE NOT ATTRACTIVE ENOUGH FOR ME TO WANT ANYTHING ROMANTIC/SEXUAL WITH YOU! I JUST SEE YOU AS AN ASEXUAL BEING AND WOULD LIKE TO GO DO SOMETHING BUT NOT ON KY OWN! OK!?"
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u dont? what woman conned you out of your genitals again isaiah
listen
this stuff is old hat to women
they run around like loki wives
their main fun during the day is
A)making you gay for the other race
B)making you gay for other men
C) putting you in jail
D) killing you by making you fuck them or fight other people over and over again (blueballs method) then u actually go to jail for it
man
u got a lot to learn about women
they basically will never be with you and its intense metallic heat when were together (not u, just me and them)
you gotta stand there like a pole and then act over and over when things get hairy then stand there again
standing is very hard when u have to act every 2-3 hours
your welcome
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>>34960424
Try hanging out with a group of people, some of whom are women.
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just nitpick her physical flaws and you will step back - like that girl in the photo has a receding hairline she cap
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>>34960432
this is completely wrong. its just a guy in a group trying to set things up with you for gay sex. they roam around losing at every situation so that a cop can fuck your girl

heres the actual advice here. learn how to handle groups of people. all groups eventually simmer to 1 on 1 conversations. this guys a narcoleptic that wants to set up a steal on you later. i recommend not listening to people who peddle unspecific advice they are always bad actors.
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>>34960424
>How are you supposed to have a close relationship with a woman without fucking her?
You are not.

>Lots of /adv/ice around getting girls is to have female friends
Retarded bluepill advice. Men gain nothing from being "friends" with women.

If you think a girl is interested, make your move when the time feels right but don't wait months for it while pining over her. If she says anything but a very clear "yes" to a date you forget about her completely, don't give her any more of your attention and move on.
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I have this exact issue.

Any time a nigger wants to hang out they're a gay faggot trying to fuck me.

Girls wanna hang out with me but then assume I am pursuing them.

What do?
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>>34960446
idk put wood in between you and them and u can hang out. maybe vidya. as a large cauc barb build, gay euro farmers will literally walk into me accidentally and give me gay hugs. they're just attracted to me idk. i think if u put heavy objects in between you and them they can stop faster
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>>34960446
bro gay niggers are a black problem yall gotta fix them boys the streets need them OGs back you feel me? time to get heated.
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>>34960442
>this guys a narcoleptic
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>>34960460
lol thats a symptom of being a thief stupid nigger. alzheimers is just doing crime too much.

most sickness is just people bullying you by sniffing your butt and knowing how to shove your tongue down with their own tongue. large gangs of swedes do this then install hospitals on farmland to make sure the city owes them all their currency and time.
try this out insult a large dutch family they just do this
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>>34960424
Women won’t date you if you’re not attractive to them. That’s all there really is to itn
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>>34960480
i didnt just solve this, its been known for a while but they basically sell a plant to you to cure something that they cause, like you suspected.

basically all body parts can shove other body parts long range thats the secret they didnt tell you. thats it. thanks buddy play again later, its just euros bullying you and selling you the product that they worship
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so basically yeah they murder our people at the highest rate ever known in history. all hoospitals are ponzi schemes that ran into the fact that u need wood at the very least. so they bullied us and hid that fact with hospital mumbo jumbo. i recommend just murdering your nearest swede or dutch family cus they seem to be unrepentant. literally every suicide and hospital murder in the past 60 been them. they supply blacks with guns thru hospital and take your kids thru hospital amazon trucks help them.
u dont gotta do evidence for this one, the only way child trafficking could ever occur is through a hospital
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>>34960565
literally go watch an obama video he teamed up with hospitals. you can see them practicing shoving their tongue down guards throats in a video to make sure people know how to do it. moroccan people own hospitals now hopefully they dont do it as much. it doesnt matter. theres real sickness and its just other men bullying you over and over energetically and with bone to bone long range. the dutch men bully you and fuck your women with the money. any man would but get this: they dont have any skills so just out them for this and watch out and they'll eventually die. i recommend we just kill them cus they're basically all lil hitlering it up at every hospital you see. they tie up all resources by demanding high wages for basicaly penicillin which they dont know how to make themselves. its a scheme which with this post is now over. thank you.
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What the fuck is this schizo doing?
>>34960506
Thats the problem, I'm attractive enough for women to want me, so does that mean I just can't have friendhips with women now?
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>>34960622
If you’re attractive then this thread is irrelevant because you shouldn’t have problems getting women
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>>34960628
And what if I actually want to be friendly with women? And what is real life isnt like your faviroute incel meme where jocks have sex with every single girl whenever they want and betas have 0 chance no matter what? What if their is a scale and I want to put myself in as good a position as possible to increase my odds with the few girls I'm actually interested in?
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>>34960643
Then you tell the woman you’re not interested in a sexual relationship and do with their reaction what you will.
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>>34960424
Look man all you gotta do is not put woman on a pedestal or try and make them feel special. Woman who are put on a pedestal won't respect it even if you do it extremely covertly like a weasel. You'll just come off creepy. There are tiers of letting someone know they're beautiful but just going up to someone off the street and saying "you have the most beautiful eyes" is just creepy. Don't be creepy. Talk about anything even some dumb dork shit but don't bring up their beauty. It only works when you're a 9/10.

Just look at yourself, would you like it if a dude came up to you and told you how special you were and how much more special you are than other people? It's feels like they're trying to sell you something.

Woman present themselves as stupid. it's a defense mechanism meant you feel like you're in control but they have thoughts of their own.

A note on special:
Woman know they're special. They just need to know that you respect them and care about things that don't make them feel special. What doesn't make them feel special? Idk their lost relationship with their dad seems to be the easiest but everyone has something. If you want that information you gotta present yourself as someone wants that information. You can try something like "I pissed myself the first day of highschoool and everyone called me pissy, eventually they thought i was just mad

Also don't try and not look like a cuck. Just don't be one.

It sounds counter-intuitive "how do you not be something without trying?". You just gotta be comfortable and accept yourself. Sounds gay but it's the truth. If you're okay with your flaws and you forget that you're ugly then you will finally be "not trying to be a cuck" but instead you will be "yourself"

If all this is waaaaaaay to hard then you need therapy.

The only woman you'll get are ones that hate themselves more than you hate yourself and that's a path that leads to pain and suffering (but a good fuck or two but nothing long term)
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>>34960424
>If I ask a girl to hangout
That's not what anyone said to do though.
>I'm sort of leading her o and then she falls out with me after toying with her anyway
Fucking kek. Ok look OP, if you're the kind of guy who needs advice on getting girls and even just talking to them in general, I can just about promise you that isn't happening and you have nothing to worry about.
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>>34960424
>Lots of /adv/ice around getting girls is to have female friends and get comfortable interacting with women and treat them like humans and the like. But how do I do that without actually dating them?
Thats all bullshit fyi
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>>34960622
>schizo
you mean you? I said easily testable stuff and you're calling me names discrediting my name. that implies psychopathy more than anything imo.

i recommend you come to my house and tell me anything you want to my face, and ill punch you right in your shit till you're red in the face, like me. should be fine. friend.
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psychopaths will often not react if you call them names. most sane conscious people will make a face or react. watch and learn, friends.
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if psychopath then discredit name and dont react with honesty to anything

if schizo debate with me
if anything but psycho then do anything but not react to what im saying (like ur trying to murder me? hm)
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who else are you trying to murder my boydo?? white faggot lmaoooo.

come to the crib, come outside and say this shit. u get smoked. ima smoke u for even replying to me in such an incoherent terribly divine way. i should kill you right now. what?
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>>34960936
Ok. Drop address.
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>>34960424
Lmao.

Intent and the buildup are everything when it comes to how something is perceived.

There’s a difference between saying, “Hey, I like talking to you. I’d like to take you out to XYZ on Friday,” and saying, “Hey, have you had a chance to go to XYZ? We should go.”
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Hang out in a group setting and then chat/interact one-on-one while in a group

For example you go with a group to play pickleball and then you play with her one-on-one or as a 2v2 team.
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Psychopaths are usually empaths abused by the state. They have very little will to live as they are unique little flowers that everyone has constantly stamped on. I wont have it anymore. Ur a fine person i bet. Their auras get malformed because people attack them for having wonderful fruity ones. I imagine it has to do with light bouncing off ur skin in different patterns and colors. Check out the aura on that guy!! Wiener shitsen.
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>>34960735
>The only woman you'll get are ones that hate themselves more than you hate yourself and that's a path that leads to pain and suffering (but a good fuck or two but nothing long term)

Wise words...



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