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The IOI for a woman to give a man are fairly well talked about and I think are pretty obvious, but what signals are is a man supposed to give to indicate initial interest?

Should I give her a look all the way down her body and then back up to make eye contact again? Or is that too sexual? Girls often complain abour men looking at their boobs, but I can't think of different ways of subtly signalling your interest to see if they reciprocate.
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>>34960636
You’re not a woman so why are you trying to do woman shit?

Your IOI is interacting with her at all.
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>>34960642
Ok but what if I don't want to end up in the platonic friend bucket?
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>>34960636
>what signals are is a man supposed to give to indicate initial interest?
You ask her out.
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>>34960645
Half the time that classification is out of your control because she’s either instantly attracted to you or not. In cases where you get the chance to escalate, you should start by flirting and see how she responds and escalate from there. Men aren’t supposed to be subtle.
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>>34960636
you just smile and hold eye contact and the normal friendly stuff but at the end you ask her to do something 1 on 1 with you
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>>34960636
>Should I give her a look all the way down her body and then back up to make eye contact again?
If you look at anything other than her face, you're dead in the water. Look her in the eye, smile, and if she doesn't look start looking at someone else, go and talk to her.
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>>34960636
Obsessing over IOIs is a waste of time.

Just make eye contact with a woman you’re into, joke around with her, flirt with her, and then ask her out.

She may be receptive to you and not realize it.

As my old sales mentor used to say, “Get to the point!”
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>a bunch of autistic incels regurgitating slop from "pick up artist" videos
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>>34961492
So then what’s the correct answer



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