Boys I'm struggling. The past two years have been a series of fucked up events >Had crazy goth girl stalk me for 7 months after two shitty dates Should have bailed after the first but I learnt my lesson >Around the time that she finally stopped stalking me I got a pretty decent job and thought things were going all right >Manager at that job was the only downside, would always complain about her ex's who were "all manipulative narcissists". I just kept myself to myself when she was around >Eventually she started flirting with me and didn't want to take the hint that I wasn't interested >So what does she do...? She accused me of assaulting her>Had to take sick leave from job because of mental health >Company investigated her claim and found no evidence to support it>3 months back and forth with HR>Company sent me an email saying I'm to return to work as normal with herThey put nothing in place because of the incident >Didn't return to that job because I didn't want another allegation thrown my wayAround the same time a friend invited me to go church with him>Made a friend group at this church >Girl from group asks me out>Have girlfriend and things seem good>Original friend started acting shady>Throwing sneak disses and shit>Call him out on his behaviour Infront of the group Bad call>Dude starts proactively trying to fuck me over nowSort of like the goth girl, but not nearly as extreme >Gf says to bring it up with the new pastor >New pastor basically blows it off as sort the problem out yourself >Stop going to that church cause of old friend and shitty pastor >Gf still associates with old friend even though she is fully aware of his behaviour and constantly brings up the shit happening in the church because of his and the pastors behaviour >Gf starts growing distant because of my refusal to participate in the church shit. Even though she's under stress because of it.>Have to break up with her
>On the day we split she tells me that several people have complained about said ex friend and pastor in church and there are safeguarding investigations between the two.>She still choses to deal with all that then accept the situation was fucked.Now I'm here, single, no job, no social group. I had a decent bunch at the gym I used to go to, but that closed down as well and everyone went elsewhere.So I'm basically out here with nothing. Still got my family and a roof over my head. But shit has just been a series of fucked up events. And I don't know what to do or what my next steps forward are.
>>34960717Ive never had a relationship or desire for one, so cant help sorry.I do sympathise with you at least putting in effort dealing with attempt to tard wrangle normie bullshit. Godspeed with whatever you do
I take it you’re a good looking guy. Have you considered being gay or dating a hot tranny?
You just have to accept that shit is just fucked sometimes. And then keep going in spite of it
Dont concern yourself with her. She is miserable and still loves you. Leave her alone to suffer and things will spiral until she reakizes what she lost. Everytime you see any thing negative toward you, know who ever that is, is seething and suffering. All of it brings it back to you if you accept her.
>>34960713Obviously you attract the same type women over and over. Same shit happened with me for years. I could walk into a room full of women and the one crazy one would approach me and I'd take her. Knowing the whole time it would blow up and I would be on the losing end. In the mean time any decent woman went unnoticed. I've had them stalk me, break into my house and car, accuse me as you were when I rejected them, threaten to kill themselves and had one point a gun in my face. They were all the same and they all pursued me and deep down I was flattered by that. It will take time for you to put out sane and stable vibes a sane and stable woman would be attracted to. In the meantime avoid all women. Don't be an emotional crutch. Don't appear a savior. Break the endorphin rush of drama, good or bad. Keep in mind a decent woman doesn't need to be saved nor will she pursue you or any man.
>>34966884Nah, saving her is fine. She just needs trust m over all else like she said she would. Then she wouldnt be decieved by all c's garbage
>>34966884I certainly do, my ex gf did say she was "Demi-sexual" and that she fell in love with me because of my personality and honesty, but when I told her about how I attract shitty women she did say "well you are conveniently attractive", so taking that statement into consideration outside of the context. which answer was true, my personality or looks. Doesn't really matter.But yeah she was crazy in her own right , she did say she asked god whether she should ask me out and he answered.>Sounds a bit schizo to meMy problem is that they way people describe me. People have told me they thought I was scary on first meeting, I've been told I look like a thug. But then I've also heard Fit, hot, "zaddy", cute.The best description was that I looked like MGK.Completely digressing here, but the point is, I look alternative despite not really being alternative. But because of that I seem to attract the mentally ill. The funny part is I genuinely asked my now ex while we were still together why I seem to attract these types and what do I need to change about myself to not>Completely blind sided at the time that she was one of these types. Just with a church girl coat of paint >>34966906Also this is not me.
>>34966936I think you need to physically attack these people who wronged you
>>34966936>she did say she asked god whether she should ask me out and he answered.You made the right fucking choice anon
>>34969829He answered me as well.
