I'm in my mid 20's and my looks are getting worse, I'm losing my hair and I can't help but notice how women give me even less attention compared to when I had hairI'm willing to improve but I know my youth is fading and girls my age have other standards compared to the girls I used to date when I was youngerHow can I improve and have a healthy and wholesome relationship? Or is it too late?
>>34960930Too late it's over.
>>34960938Really? Why?
>>34960930First off, are you aging in dog years or something? Mid-20s is supposed to be your physical prime for most people.Second point, if you're really that concerned with your relationships being "healthy and wholesome" you shouldn't be prioritizing (let alone expecting) to be in one simply for your looks. Your looks will fade one day (apparently ahead of schedule for you) and so will hers. And then where will you be? Don't get me wrong it's important to be attracted to your partner. But if physical attraction is all that's there, it won't last very long and nor would I describe it as "healthy and wholesome".
>>34961001That's completely true, looks shouldn't be my top priority if I want to have a genuine connection. My looks have gotten way worse lately as a result of all the stress I endured these last few yearsI had a pretty rough childhood since my parents are mentally unwell, so I essentially travelled a lot to 'escape' from that household. My dad never really taught me anything and my mom was extremely overprotective and wouldn't let me clean or cook anything so when I left pretty much everyone was either pissed at me or making fun of me for being so inept I guess that’s partly why I want to be kind now, I had some nice people help me along the way and I believe there's good people out there and I would like to be one of them
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