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beautiful wonderful girlfriend.
goes out with her sister to have a talk. get sushi.
I fell asleep. wake up and every social media is deleted. im blocked and ghosted.
no idea what happened last night.
never cheated, no abuse or addictions or nothing, she was very happy with me.

now shes gone. the only thing left was the dating profile where I'd first matched her, asked her what happened. unmatched me and deleted that too.

no idea what happened last night.
no idea what was said or if she messaged me and needed me and I was asleep or something.

but yea. she just completely closed everyone out. im pretty miserable. called into work.
yelling at god. no answer.
what do I do?
that was the last woman I ever wanted to talk with. and I have no idea what went wrong.
what do I do?
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>>34961414
>what do I do?
If she keeps this up for over a week, don't even think about getting back with her.
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literally nothing you can do, if she's gone she's gone and if she needs space crowbarring your way to get in contact with her isn't going to do either of you favours
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>>34961414
Never talk to her again.
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>>34961414
>teen gets dumped by his e-gf for the first time
>thinks the world is ending
tough luck autistic nigga, but there are billions of women on this planet, never get stuck on one dumb hoe
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>>34961437
yea. whatever it is she doesn't want to talk to me.
I'm really feeling very crushed over this.
It was absolutely the best most compatible thing I have ever been in.
I have no idea why she'd do this it was SO good.
trying to just be outwardly calm and not do something retarded. i want to do something very stupid. go find her and ask why she would cut me away....
I know its over because we talked about this being the one thing that really hurts the worst in an ending relationship. no goodbye or reason- just never hear from them again.
always wanted to know how you fucked it up or why you werent good enough or what even happened.

went to sleep happy. woke up shocked.
now Im wishing I could just die now.
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>>34961414
How long did you two date?

Weird situation and I would have no idea on how to proceed other than just do what you can and forget about her.

Complete side tangent but dating in the current age seems so risky and not for the faint of heart, you are literally a moment and a few texts away from someone completely torpedoing your relationship with your girlfriend. You could do everything right but there is literally nothing from an ex bf of hers to send her a couple texts asking to work things out or a parent expressing their disinterest in you, and like that its over.

Take solace in the fact it ended when it did and didn't go a moment later or get more serious, as something else was bound to explode it even if you were Jesus Christ himself.
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>>34961414
>she was very happy with me.
If that were true, this couldn't have happened.
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>>34961414
> unmatched me and deleted that too.
Was she actually your gf or did you just go on a few dates? Why did she still have a dating profile up?
>she just completely closed everyone out
So it's not just you, she suddenly cut out everyone you know?

Something about this post isn't adding up.
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>>34961414
>broke up with guy
>cried in bed for three days
>go to bar
>meet the loml
it does happen if you let it. i think about what would have been if i gave that guy a shot instead of getting back with my ex.
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How long were you dating if you still had dating apps?
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my current girlfriend deleted her hinge profile BEFORE we even went on our first date, so this feels strange OP. looks like she still wants to explore her options and she rushed into a relationship with you.

still, if you were "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" thats a shitty thing for her to do, and you have the right to be mad about it. she was in the wrong
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>>34962003
I knew a couple who broke up and his gf went ahead and jumped on bumble or something. they got back together but she found out he had been on grindr for a long time.
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she came back. was up late drunk and crying about life and deleted everything from everything she could and promised herself she would start from scratch the next day when she woke up.
then woke up and realized that was retarded and had no contacts.
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>>34961414
Sounds like she's not wonderful after all
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You two retards deserve eachother, please don't procreate, we have enough retards in the world
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>>34961414
What planet is that?
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>>34961414
When did you meet her? How did you meet her? How long were you together?
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>>34963667
Not OP but it's called a Mineral moon for sure
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>>34963743
Thanks for confirming, I can ignore this larp thread now
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>>34961414
>goes out with her sister
anon, she was not with her sister
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Women do not just break up instantly like that out of the blue. They "break up" emotionally first and start sabotaging the relationship to force the man into actually breaking up. If it gets to the point that they break up themselves or just leave like that it's because the decision has been made a long time ago and they sabotaged and disrespected to force his hand but the man wasn't even man enough to break up.

She was not very happy with you. Judging from your post, it's likely you were clingy, emotionally dependent and didn't have a masculine frame during the relationship so she felt insecure, maybe found a better option and wanted out.
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>>34963894
So much projecting and assumptions in your post.

In my situation (not op) she had other difficulties in her life that made her isolate and then she was lied to amd manipulated away from us. I have always been her man and she was truly happy when with me.
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>>34961414
She already made that decision weeks ir months beforehand probably.
It's over.
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>>34963894
>She was not very happy with you. Judging from your post, it's likely you were clingy, emotionally dependent and didn't have a masculine frame during the relationship so she felt insecure, maybe found a better option and wanted out.

What you are doing is attempting to rewrite the past narrative to manipulate how she remembers her and my truth of each other for your own manipulative selfish gain.
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>>34963983
It's the truth, you can cope all you want.

>she had other difficulties in her life that made her isolate and then she was lied to amd manipulated away from us. I have always been her man and she was truly happy when with me.
She was fucking someone else.
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>>34964005
In my situation she was not with anyone else. And me reacting to your LARP is not cope, just because I don't want to listen to your lies that you are using to manipulate her perception of the truth.



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