22 m, khv, For the past three months, after solving most of my life's problems (getting a driver license, passing most difficult exams at subject I'm studying etc) I've been struck by something I would call "gf fever". Literally every day I think about getting a girlfriend, fantasize about it to the point of it interfering with me enjoying my life. And no, porn isnt resolving it, since the things I wish I experienced are things other than orgasm. I'm talking about going on dates, going to events together, having someone to cuddle with, feeling the pressing body of another person and such. So everything other than this seems pointless. What's the point of having goals in life if it never gets better than this feeling of loneliness. I see my friends and strangers alike having girlfriends, I even asked some of my acquaintances (both male and female) if they have any free friends and apparently they have none, so only hope I have is cold approach or dating apps, neither of which is promising. Hobbies or less ambitious ways to pass free time don't make me shake off this feeling either.
You are only 22.The meaning of your life is whatever you want it to be. And making someone else the central point of your life is one of the worst decisions you could possibly make and will ruin you.
Work backwards. Why should someone be with you? What would you bring to her life?Whether if it's as shallow as looks and money, or more in-depth like compatibility, what is it that makes you stand out more?Are your hobbies something you can do in a social environment? Are you even putting yourself out there in some way?
>>34962839>Why should someone be with you? What would you bring to her life?Good way of thinking.It's tough but it's necessary to reflect on this and understand your own issues and what your priorities should be in life.It was a blow to my ego to admit to myself that my ex truly had no reason to be with me since I was completely aimless in life and what I brought to the table didn't outweigh the opportunity cost of being with me. But after I accepted that I could understand what I want out of life, who I want to be and who I want with me.
If you are unhappy alone you will be unhappy in a relationship too. Happiness comes from within you, it has nothing to do with your job, wealth, or relationship status.
>>34963139cope he asked for tangible physical adv on how to capture a foid not some religious psuedobuddha cursive yapanese
