She was being really weird over chat talking about some "are you abandoning me???" and being all dramatic but was alright when interacting with her in real life so I just dropped the confession nuke to see if I could at least pump & dump her and I guess I got rejected, it weirdly doesn't feel AS bad as you'd think. I thought I would be like heart broken or whatever but it feels like the emotional equivalent of mildly stubbing your toe. I wasn't head over heels for her or anything more like "yeah sure, I guess that would be fun". Also I was seeing some red flags so I think I might cope by saying that god works in mysterious ways and that he made me dodge a crazy lady bullet and that's that but that feels like unnatural cope.
>>34961584This whole post is cope.
>>34961589Yeah but how do I cope in a natural way?
>>34961595Come to terms with your actual feelings instead of huffing copium. You clearly felt something real for this woman or else you would've never post this lol. Learn how to understand your own emotions for starters. You should've done that before you started dating.
>>34961598No fucking way its possible to develop real true genuine feelings after just a month bro, I'm genuinely not coping when I say she put the PRACTICE in practice girlfriend
>>34961584You should've just fucked her. You messed up when you asked for permission.
>>34961604Even more copium. >No fucking way its possible to develop real true genuine feelings after just a month broYour brain can form a real emotional attachment to someone very quickly; time determines how well you know them, not whether the feelings are real. You realise love is just a chemical and your brain is just a fucking machine that is trying to fuck right? Every emotion including anger, fear, friendship and happiness are produced by physical processes; that doesn't mean the experience itself is meaningless or fake. You get what i'm trying to put down homie?
>>34961615Shut up. I didn't care seriously. So just shut up, fuck off. OK?
>>34961615>>34961630no idea who that second anon is, so anyways how do I naturally cope? Go to the gym and become jacked or something?
>>34961634Oh so your pretending to be me now? I would never go in the gym, youre so fake
>>34961634Genuinely you need to understand your feelings, do some reading, ask yourself questions. You could distract yourself with other things but if you never get to the root cause of feeling this way it'll never really go away, not that it would if you understand why you feel this way desu, you just learn to handle it better and naturally cope without outwardly coping. Time heals all, you'll soon forget about it in a couple months.
>>34961662>reading>self reflectionAlright buddy I think I'm just gonna watch this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ddpx0JLOH6o and then beg my ex to come back
>>34961683She's not coming back.
>>34961584Rejection doesn't actually matter that much, despite what incels who have never asked a girl out before claim.
>Tee hee I'm getting into a relationship with a guy I don't care about to increase my bodycount tee hee>waaaaa! Why is pair bonding fucking with me? Wasaaaa! I'm a victim!
