I found the whatsapp number of a family member I haven't talked to since I was 12Actually I haven't talked with any member of my extended family since I was 12, I know the hate my immediate relatives and want nothing to do with them, but so do I, so maybe I should try to reconnect to stop being alone?Also what should I say? My parents told me horror stories about them, they used to lie about everyone to make them look back, but now I'm scared they'll be mean or try to take advantage of me