I am pretty shit at dating. I hate it. I run out of ideas for dating and I consider only dates where we go and sit down and eat to be dates. Mostly because they are simple enough for me. I have like 3 restaurants I like to go to. I don't like trying new ones. Mostly because I have awful luck. The last time I had a date, the restaurant I had never been to actually had burned down maybe 2 weeks prior to my date. I get there, the shit is torched and abandoned. I didn't have a backup plan and spaghetti'd the whole date. So my question, is it fine to just go on dates to the same place multiple times? I basically never get sick of going to the same places. However, I think women might get sick of that. What do you think? Also, what are some valid ideas for dates? I can't fathom doing something other than like a lunch or dinner date.
if you're running out of restaurants with women and not getting to the point you can have a dialogue about future date plans you are doing something very, very, very, very wrong
>>34965155I am awful and progressing dates and relationships basically. It took me like 4 dates to get a kiss from a woman and that was my first kiss at age 31. I just don't understand how people go on all these dates comfortably. Going places I haven't been to stresses me alot.
>>34965153It is totally fine to go to the same place more than once. For you, always have a backup or two backups in mind. My favorite date is going to the zoo or aquarium btw, because then even if the date sucks I'm still having fun at the zoo
>>34965179So is it valid to just go to the same restaurants in your opinion or would women find that weird?
>>34965190There are only so many good restaurants within a reasonable driving distance. What's weird is thinking you can only go somewhere once and then it's permanently removed from the map.
>>34965203i think he means with the same person
>>34965208Yeah. I got that. It's still a stupid way to think. If there are only 20 restaurants within 40 minutes that are decent what was he thinking he was supposed to do after going on a date to the last one? No more eating out?
>>34965203>>34965208>>34965215Yeah I was talking about going out with the same woman. So it would seem that going to the same spot is fine then. I guess that is okay then. I always thought women would think I am weird if I didn't keep things fresh somehow.
>>34965153Get cues from her. "You mentioned last time that you like country music (or whatever). There's a Dolly Parton tribute act (or whatever) coming to town next week. Want to go?"If not music, then art, activity, movies, whatever SHE might enjoy
>>34965153It's that time of year for:-haunted houses-pick your own apples-halloween parties-horror movies in theaters-horror movie nights at home-autumn hikingThat's an entire months worth of weekend dates right there.
>>34968570I don't like to do any of those things and if I did do them, It would likely leading to me resenting her because I would feel like I am being forced to do them because she likes them.
>>34971909Find a woman who doesn't like going out then.
>>34971909>I basically never get sick of going to the same places. However, I think women might get sick of that. What do you think?Seems like you're a boring faggot. Women dont like being with boring faggots, anon.
