I haven't had sex for 7 months since my last girlfriend, who I dated for 1.5 years and had absolutely great wild sex with. Before that, I hadn't had sex in 2 full years since my OTHER last girlfriend, who I dated for 3 years and also had absolutely great wild sex with. Point is, when I'm with a girl and comfortable I can settle into healthy fun sex. But outside of it I don't get anything, really.I'm attractive enough to get girls, and socially in tune enough to pull it off with some focus. But I have never had a successful one-night-stand because I never can get hard (nerves or porn or something) so I generally avoid it. I'm kind of an emotional mess too so hookups scare me.Is this bad? Sometimes it feels frustrating like i'm missing out on something. But other times it seems so stressful I don't even really miss it. I guess it feels like I'm "doing something wrong" but that's probably just hollywood/porn programming. IDK how often are you guys getting laid?
>>34966987>IDK how often are you guys getting laid?Pretty much never.
>7 months>long periodAre you joking? Try seven years lmao. If it is really that terrible for you go be a plapjak.
38 yo here, never fucked, you'll be okay OP
>>34966987>how often are you guys getting laid?Not enough but between work and a newborn at home I honestly don't care. Fuck I'm tired.
>>34966987In order to get laid, that would require either putting a ton of effort into a dating profile (eg present yourself as a person with great fashion who travels a lot and has lots of friends, which is probably not true) or for you to go to bars and clubs, which may require you to have wingmen, which you probably don't have as well.
>>34966987Friends with benefits, fuckbuddy etc. pp. Its perfectly normal to need some trust and comfort , and even if you are into casual sex, the best sex is always had with longer term partners.Your mistake is buying into the fuckass retarded dichotomy of "gf" and "hookup", as if it was this clear cut.Relationships are shades of grey, you don't need to have straight hookups or immediately swear eternal love to a girl. Theres a healthy middle road.
