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I got a full-time job now and have to give up playing piano because I don't have the time anymore. I will keep sports (gym, hiking, running, bouldering, dancing) and cooking but that's it.

Does this have a negative effect on my dating attractiveness? I will try to fill some time with triyng to learn how to draw. However, the piano/music thing is completely out, I don't have the time to practice daily and go to lessons every week.

How much do hobbies impact your attractiveness? Does it have any negative effect if my only hobbies are sports, cooking and drawing?
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>>34967455
Obviously, if you want a woman who is into music, then playing music is an advantage. Outside of that, it means nothing. What matters is your skill level in your hobby of choice. No woman cares if you're a beginner, but if you're an expert then it's attractive.
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Hobbies are sounds u make with items. U do it to meet women and women are tactile so u end up doing something else. Hobbies dont impress women unless they see a dollar bill. Once they realize that every fuck is worth about 10 bil they gate it behind ur items or their items. U unlock them by making the right sounds and travelling.
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This makes their orgasms tighter. U hsve to remmeber they dont like that. All the things i do are to make them longer.

Theres no fleece to the human body. We rely on nectars. Plant a rose bush in your body and the ground and hope it takes. I personally use mulch from local linden bushes.
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>>34967455
>Do your hobbies have any impact on your attractiveness to women?
no
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>>34967468
I guess my preference is girls who are also active and sporty, so it actually aligns with my priority being working out above all other hobbies. Having to quit piano only hurts because I also like to have at least one creative outlet.
I have read (mostly on reddit) that it's unattractive if a guy is mostly into working out and doesn't have anything else. Is this true?
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>>34967455
>have to give up playing piano
Sounds like you just want to give it up. If you actually wanted to play piano you would practice for 30 minutes a day or alternate what activity you are doing in said day. I can work 8 hours, go to gym for 2 hours, cook dinner, commute, play vidya for an hour, and still practice guitar for an hour a day.
>How much do hobbies impact your attractiveness?
What does this have to do with anything? Did you only play piano for female attention?
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>>34967490
>I have read (mostly on reddit) that it's unattractive if a guy is mostly into working out and doesn't have anything else. Is this true?
Working out is not going to increase your status unless you're going to use it to become a personal trainer. It's a good thing to do for your health but it isn't going to fulfill all the things that women want from men.
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>>34967455
Why the hell would you pick your hobbies just as a sexual strategy? You guys really get everything wrong, do things because you want to do them, and eventually you will find a girl that fits with your life, not the other way around.
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>>34967530
My face is really fucking ugly and I thought I could compensate that by working on my personality and hobbies. I read that piano is extremely attractive to girls.
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>>34967586
>I read that piano is extremely attractive
Yeah, in the Justin Bieber playing piano and serenading them sense
Don't whip out some Ling Ling La Campanella shit and expect her to be any wetter than the sand
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>>34967455
absolutely fucking not, not that I have that many anyway. I haven't fucked a single woman who was into anime, vidya, reading or meditation. It's either horse girls, party girls (no interests other than social media, friends, drinking, "having a good time"), or introverted nurses or something. I seriously, genuinely wonder how they spend 365 days a year doing all of this boring shit and not seeing a problem with that
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>>34967627
Their hobbies are better than yours, you retarded race traitor
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>>34967455
Pro tip: lie about your hobbies.
Say you play guitar, say you're an artist, say you go out with your friends once a week, say you like to just drive around in your car without a purpose.
I personally haven't done this much, but i know it's effective. Liars win.
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>>34967455
Bouldering and dancing is fag shit. Women dont respect that. They also only care about the gym to the extent that it gives you a good physique.
They dont give a shit about seeing you there, your routine, or the general experience of you doing the work. Only the results.
Trading piano was a huge mistake. Bitches like musicians. Ditch the faggot rock-humping and dancing and learn piano and guitar instead.



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